• The black widow/er effect (lifespan and incompatibility)

    From David Dalton@21:1/5 to All on Tue Aug 6 01:02:41 2024
    XPost: alt.religion.druid, alt.magick, alt.homosexual.lesbian
    XPost: alt.teens.lesbian, aus.culture.lesbigay

    This post uses terminology from my Eight Sexual Harmonics
    matchmaking theory, which is summarized on
    https://www.nfld.com/~dalton/8H.html .

    I theorize that optimal sexual compatible relationships
    result in longest lifespan and physical and mental health
    healing effects, and deceptive incompatible relationships
    result in the shortest lifespan for the one who is deceived.

    That assumes no persecution and no risky behaviour
    for same gender relationships.

    Also note that I define bim as male attracted to both
    genders and bif as female attracted to both genders,
    not necessarily having sex with both genders.
    Many of these are straight by lifestyle choice, but I
    do not call those straight-type-3. The proportion
    of bims and bifs in the population is far higher than
    is reported in surveys.

    With that in mind, the optimal sexually compatible
    relationships are:

    straight-type-1-M--straight-type-1-F
    straight-type-2-M--bif
    straight-type-2-F--bim
    (all of those lock for life)
    gay--gay
    gay--bim
    bim--bim
    lesbian--lesbian
    lesbian--bif
    bif--bif
    (those don’t lock for life)

    I define partially compatible as compatible, but less than
    optimally sexually compatible and less likely to stick and
    less likely to be faithful than the above-listed opposite
    gender relationships. These are:

    straight-type-1-M--bif
    straight-type-1-F--bim
    bim--bif (who often go bye bye)

    and would have shorter lifespan than optimally sexually
    compatible relationships.

    Some with similar lifespans to the partially compatible are:

    celibates/single people
    platonic gay--lesbian relatiionships (which can be bridged
    by a bim--bif couple)
    platonic straight-type-2-M--lesbian relationships (which can
    be bridged by a bif)
    platonic straight-type-2-F--gay relationships (which can
    be bridged by a bim).

    I think that straight-type-2-M--straight-type-2-F is highly unlikely to
    occur.

    Finally the deceptive incompatible relationships:

    straight-type-1-M--lesbian
    bim--lesbian
    straight-type-1-F--gay
    bif--gay

    for which there is a black widow/er effect in which the one who is
    deceived (the ones on the left) suffers adverse mental and physical
    health effects and shorter lifespans. I believe that a substantial
    percentage of cancer cases are due to this effect, though earlier
    in the relationship mental health effects may be more noticeable.
    Also the effect may be more pronounced if the deceiver commits
    the negative magick of thinking of someone of the same gender
    as them who is not there, while having sex with their partner.
    This might be more common amongst gay deceivers since they
    would probably need to do that to maintain an erection.

    Anyway, the above is still just a theory, though I have confirmed
    it for several cases using my matchmaking ability, including
    two cancer deaths in my close and extended family. So anyway
    I think it is worthy of research, say by seeing what percentage of
    women with breast cancer have a gay husband, or if any came
    out as gay after their wife died of cancer. And surely if a
    deceiver realized the negative effects they would break up
    the relationship, if they truly care for their partner.

    One famous example is gay Antonio Guterres, whose first
    wife died young, but he is optimally sexually compatible with
    his current wife, who is bimT (spiritually bim in female form).
    That might lead Antonio to erroneously think he is bim
    if he doesn’t know that his wife is a trans man.

    (Also note that it may be now true that my matchmaking ability
    has been granted to 1.55 million human assisted shaktipat
    recipients globally, and I hope it is true since I can’t help
    everyone on my own, though if it is not true perhaps I can
    help develop survey questions to aid matchmaking, plus I
    still am offering free readings for now, though I wouldn’t
    reject a gift if you are happy with a reading.)

    --
    David Dalton dalton@nfld.com https://www.nfld.com/~dalton (home page) https://www.nfld.com/~dalton/dtales.html Salmon on the Thorns (mystic page) “And the cart is on a wheel; And the wheel is on a hill; And the
    hill is shifting sand; And inside these laws we stand" (Ferron)

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  • From David Dalton@21:1/5 to All on Tue Aug 6 20:18:13 2024
    XPost: alt.religion.druid, alt.magick, alt.homosexual.lesbian
    XPost: alt.teens.lesbian, aus.culture.lesbigay

    On Aug 6, 2024, David Dalton wrote
    (in article<0001HW.2C61D0D90076C16570001033938F@news.eternal-september.org>):

    This post uses terminology from my Eight Sexual Harmonics
    matchmaking theory, which is summarized on https://www.nfld.com/~dalton/8H.html .

    I theorize that optimal sexual compatible relationships
    result in longest lifespan and physical and mental health
    healing effects, and deceptive incompatible relationships
    result in the shortest lifespan for the one who is deceived.

    That assumes no persecution and no risky behaviour
    for same gender relationships.

    Also note that I define bim as male attracted to both
    genders and bif as female attracted to both genders,
    not necessarily having sex with both genders.
    Many of these are straight by lifestyle choice, but I
    do not call those straight-type-3. The proportion
    of bims and bifs in the population is far higher than
    is reported in surveys.

    With that in mind, the optimal sexually compatible
    relationships are:

    straight-type-1-M--straight-type-1-F
    straight-type-2-M--bif
    straight-type-2-F--bim
    (all of those lock for life)
    gay--gay
    gay--bim
    bim--bim
    lesbian--lesbian
    lesbian--bif
    bif--bif
    (those don’t lock for life)

    I define partially compatible as compatible, but less than
    optimally sexually compatible and less likely to stick and
    less likely to be faithful than the above-listed opposite
    gender relationships. These are:

    straight-type-1-M--bif
    straight-type-1-F--bim
    bim--bif (who often go bye bye)

    and would have shorter lifespan than optimally sexually
    compatible relationships.

    Some with similar lifespans to the partially compatible are:

    celibates/single people
    platonic gay--lesbian relatiionships (which can be bridged
    by a bim--bif couple)
    platonic straight-type-2-M--lesbian relationships (which can
    be bridged by a bif)
    platonic straight-type-2-F--gay relationships (which can
    be bridged by a bim).

    I think that straight-type-2-M--straight-type-2-F is highly unlikely to occur.

    Finally the deceptive incompatible relationships:

    straight-type-1-M--lesbian
    bim--lesbian
    straight-type-1-F--gay
    bif--gay

    for which there is a black widow/er effect in which the one who is
    deceived (the ones on the left) suffers adverse mental and physical
    health effects and shorter lifespans. I believe that a substantial
    percentage of cancer cases are due to this effect, though earlier
    in the relationship mental health effects may be more noticeable.
    Also the effect may be more pronounced if the deceiver commits
    the negative magick of thinking of someone of the same gender
    as them who is not there, while having sex with their partner.
    This might be more common amongst gay deceivers since they
    would probably need to do that to maintain an erection.

    Anyway, the above is still just a theory, though I have confirmed
    it for several cases using my matchmaking ability, including
    two cancer deaths in my close and extended family. So anyway
    I think it is worthy of research, say by seeing what percentage of
    women with breast cancer have a gay husband, or if any came
    out as gay after their wife died of cancer. And surely if a
    deceiver realized the negative effects they would break up
    the relationship, if they truly care for their partner.

    One famous example is gay Antonio Guterres, whose first
    wife died young, but he is optimally sexually compatible with
    his current wife, who is bimT (spiritually bim in female form).
    That might lead Antonio to erroneously think he is bim
    if he doesn’t know that his wife is a trans man.

    (Also note that it may be now true that my matchmaking ability
    has been granted to 1.55 million human assisted shaktipat
    recipients globally, and I hope it is true since I can’t help
    everyone on my own, though if it is not true perhaps I can
    help develop survey questions to aid matchmaking, plus I
    still am offering free readings for now, though I wouldn’t
    reject a gift if you are happy with a reading.)

    I neglected to discuss straight-type-1 relationships
    with straight-type-2. Those can occur but they are
    incompatible (the straight-type-1 has one-way attraction
    to the straight-type-2) and they are generally not
    long lasting. As for health benefits, like the
    partially compatible ones there are no health and
    lifespan extension benefits but there are also no
    detriments.

    --
    David Dalton dalton@nfld.com https://www.nfld.com/~dalton (home page) https://www.nfld.com/~dalton/dtales.html Salmon on the Thorns (mystic page) “And the cart is on a wheel; And the wheel is on a hill; And the
    hill is shifting sand; And inside these laws we stand" (Ferron)

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