• Re: is it old age or anxiety/depression

    From mercellusb@21:1/5 to mercellusb on Mon Apr 18 08:53:56 2022
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 10:52:45 AM UTC-5, mercellusb wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as opposed to how they felt prior to
    the last several years.
    I'll also add that I thought I was going to lose my spousal unit a few weeks ago and that made an impression.

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  • From mercellusb@21:1/5 to All on Mon Apr 18 08:52:43 2022
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as opposed to how they felt prior to the
    last several years.

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  • From Plaidmoon@21:1/5 to mercellusb on Mon Apr 18 09:58:44 2022
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 8:53:58 AM UTC-7, mercellusb wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 10:52:45 AM UTC-5, mercellusb wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as opposed to how they felt prior to
    the last several years.

    I'll also add that I thought I was going to lose my spousal unit a few weeks ago and that made an impression.

    Thoughts about our mortality a natural response to nearly losing a loved one. I've been having them too. For me, it was 2 major surgeries and 17 days in the hospital for a ruptured ulcer (I never knew I had an ulcer!) and months off work getting my
    strength back. My surgeon was very worried for me before the second surgery but I pulled through just fine. I'm still only about 85% of what I was before but continuing to improve. Also, watching my wife in constant pain from a bad back lets me know that
    we're both getting older. I'm still planning to work another 5 years, but my co-workers think I'm crazy not to retire now. Maybe I'll change my mind or have another medical issue. We'll see what life has in store for us.

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  • From xyzzy@21:1/5 to mercellusb on Mon Apr 18 17:00:55 2022
    mercellusb <tdrake7@gmail.com> wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind
    more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as opposed to how they felt prior to the last several years.


    Yes and no.

    As 60 approaches I think more about retirement, often in terms of balancing having the money to do what I want with having enough good years left to
    enjoy it.

    My financial advisor tells me I can retire now if I have a relatively quiet inexpensive retirement. So now I’m working for world travel and private aviation in retirement. Hard to know exactly when to call it quits, it’s a balance.

    --
    “I usually skip over your posts because of your disguistng, contrarian, liberal personality.” — Altie

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  • From Michael Falkner@21:1/5 to mercellusb on Mon Apr 18 10:33:45 2022
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 8:52:45 AM UTC-7, mercellusb wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as opposed to how they felt prior to
    the last several years.

    How about the realization that a lot of people are going to have to die, and the very real fact that you recognize you might end up going, either as one of them or at the hand of someone who has nothing left to lose?

    Mike

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  • From mercellusb@21:1/5 to Michael Falkner on Mon Apr 18 10:48:55 2022
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 12:33:46 PM UTC-5, Michael Falkner wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 8:52:45 AM UTC-7, mercellusb wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as opposed to how they felt prior to
    the last several years.
    How about the realization that a lot of people are going to have to die, and the very real fact that you recognize you might end up going, either as one of them or at the hand of someone who has nothing left to lose?

    Mike
    a lot of people? ITYM "all people", right?

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  • From Michael Falkner@21:1/5 to mercellusb on Mon Apr 18 12:03:28 2022
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 10:48:57 AM UTC-7, mercellusb wrote:

    a lot of people? ITYM "all people", right?

    Not in the timeframe I think is implied in my previous reply.

    I know what you're saying, but there's a difference between "everyone dies at their time" and the fact that a lot of people are probably going to have to die far before it (either because they never, as a feasible matter of either resource mathematics or
    economic mathematics, should've been born or that their presence is an obstruction to the betterment of others).

    Mike

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  • From RoddyMcCorley@21:1/5 to mercellusb on Mon Apr 18 15:45:54 2022
    On 4/18/2022 11:52 AM, mercellusb wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as opposed to how they felt prior to
    the last several years.

    Nah, they're clueless.

    --
    "In theory, there is no difference between theory and practice. In
    practice, there is." Ruben Goldberg

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  • From RoddyMcCorley@21:1/5 to Plaidmoon on Mon Apr 18 15:52:28 2022
    On 4/18/2022 12:58 PM, Plaidmoon wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 8:53:58 AM UTC-7, mercellusb wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 10:52:45 AM UTC-5, mercellusb wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as opposed to how they felt prior to
    the last several years.

    I'll also add that I thought I was going to lose my spousal unit a few weeks ago and that made an impression.

    Thoughts about our mortality a natural response to nearly losing a loved one. I've been having them too. For me, it was 2 major surgeries and 17 days in the hospital for a ruptured ulcer (I never knew I had an ulcer!) and months off work getting my
    strength back. My surgeon was very worried for me before the second surgery but I pulled through just fine. I'm still only about 85% of what I was before but continuing to improve. Also, watching my wife in constant pain from a bad back lets me know that
    we're both getting older. I'm still planning to work another 5 years, but my co-workers think I'm crazy not to retire now. Maybe I'll change my mind or have another medical issue. We'll see what life has in store for us.

    Retire when it is economically right for you. That may be a moving
    target and it may be tempting to work longer for higher benefits, but
    you also want to have your health so you can do the things you and your
    wife want to do.

    --
    "In theory, there is no difference between theory and practice. In
    practice, there is." Ruben Goldberg

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  • From RoddyMcCorley@21:1/5 to Michael Falkner on Mon Apr 18 15:54:24 2022
    On 4/18/2022 1:33 PM, Michael Falkner wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 8:52:45 AM UTC-7, mercellusb wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as opposed to how they felt prior to
    the last several years.

    How about the realization that a lot of people are going to have to die, and the very real fact that you recognize you might end up going, either as one of them or at the hand of someone who has nothing left to lose?

    Mike
    There's a heat-warming thought for today.:-(

    --
    "In theory, there is no difference between theory and practice. In
    practice, there is." Ruben Goldberg

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  • From mercellusb@21:1/5 to RoddyMcCorley on Mon Apr 18 15:49:37 2022
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 2:54:27 PM UTC-5, RoddyMcCorley wrote:
    On 4/18/2022 1:33 PM, Michael Falkner wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 8:52:45 AM UTC-7, mercellusb wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as opposed to how they felt prior
    to the last several years.

    How about the realization that a lot of people are going to have to die, and the very real fact that you recognize you might end up going, either as one of them or at the hand of someone who has nothing left to lose?

    Mike
    There's a heat-warming thought for today.:-(
    --
    "In theory, there is no difference between theory and practice. In
    practice, there is." Ruben Goldberg
    maybe it's just Monday
    https://media.giphy.com/media/Woc5F2s89MnLO/giphy.gif

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  • From TE@21:1/5 to xyzzy on Mon Apr 18 21:02:48 2022
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 1:00:59 PM UTC-4, xyzzy wrote:
    mercellusb <tdr...@gmail.com> wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as opposed to how they felt prior to the last several years.

    Yes and no.

    As 60 approaches I think more about retirement, often in terms of balancing having the money to do what I want with having enough good years left to enjoy it.

    My financial advisor tells me I can retire now if I have a relatively quiet inexpensive retirement. So now I’m working for world travel and private aviation in retirement. Hard to know exactly when to call it quits, it’s a balance.

    I'm in a similar position. 58 this year, will have 30 years in next year, not that
    that is the coveted number it once was in my occupation. I could retire now, and be okay, but I'd probably find another job. At least my wife says I will.

    I'm working for health care, and like you, money to travel. My health is good,
    but it's a fine line. Knowing when to quit and still have enough on the ball to visit the places I want to see and really enjoy them. My dad is 93, mom 87,
    all four of my grandparents lived pass 85 so, statistically, I've got a few years left.

    -TE

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  • From Ken Olson@21:1/5 to All on Tue Apr 19 00:43:47 2022
    On 4/19/2022 12:02 AM, TE wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 1:00:59 PM UTC-4, xyzzy wrote:
    mercellusb <tdr...@gmail.com> wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind >>> more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was
    wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as >>> opposed to how they felt prior to the last several years.

    Yes and no.

    As 60 approaches I think more about retirement, often in terms of balancing >> having the money to do what I want with having enough good years left to
    enjoy it.

    My financial advisor tells me I can retire now if I have a relatively quiet >> inexpensive retirement. So now I’m working for world travel and private
    aviation in retirement. Hard to know exactly when to call it quits, it’s a >> balance.

    I'm in a similar position. 58 this year, will have 30 years in next year, not that
    that is the coveted number it once was in my occupation. I could retire now,
    and be okay, but I'd probably find another job. At least my wife says I will.

    I'm working for health care, and like you, money to travel. My health is good,
    but it's a fine line. Knowing when to quit and still have enough on the ball to visit the places I want to see and really enjoy them. My dad is 93, mom 87,
    all four of my grandparents lived pass 85 so, statistically, I've got a few years left.

    -TE

    If you like what you're doing and it makes financial sense, keep doing
    it. I'm 62, retired at 55, and had a job that I hated. Once it was financially viable it was an easy decision. I haven't got another job,
    but I'm active in local governmental things and have been averaging a
    surgery per year.

    --
    ÄLSKAR - Fänga Dagen

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  • From mercellusb@21:1/5 to Plaidmoon on Tue Apr 19 06:25:23 2022
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 11:58:46 AM UTC-5, Plaidmoon wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 8:53:58 AM UTC-7, mercellusb wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 10:52:45 AM UTC-5, mercellusb wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as opposed to how they felt prior
    to the last several years.

    I'll also add that I thought I was going to lose my spousal unit a few weeks ago and that made an impression.
    Thoughts about our mortality a natural response to nearly losing a loved one. I've been having them too. For me, it was 2 major surgeries and 17 days in the hospital for a ruptured ulcer (I never knew I had an ulcer!) and months off work getting my
    strength back. My surgeon was very worried for me before the second surgery but I pulled through just fine. I'm still only about 85% of what I was before but continuing to improve. Also, watching my wife in constant pain from a bad back lets me know that
    we're both getting older. I'm still planning to work another 5 years, but my co-workers think I'm crazy not to retire now. Maybe I'll change my mind or have another medical issue. We'll see what life has in store for us.
    I do wish the best for outcomes and your wife. Chronic back pain is terrible.

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  • From Con Reeder, unhyphenated American@21:1/5 to randorwell@gmail.com on Thu Apr 21 04:02:34 2022
    On 2022-04-19, TE <randorwell@gmail.com> wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 1:00:59 PM UTC-4, xyzzy wrote:
    mercellusb <tdr...@gmail.com> wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind >> > more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was
    wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as >> > opposed to how they felt prior to the last several years.

    Yes and no.

    As 60 approaches I think more about retirement, often in terms of balancing >> having the money to do what I want with having enough good years left to
    enjoy it.

    My financial advisor tells me I can retire now if I have a relatively quiet >> inexpensive retirement. So now I’m working for world travel and private
    aviation in retirement. Hard to know exactly when to call it quits, it’s a >> balance.

    I'm in a similar position. 58 this year, will have 30 years in next year, not that
    that is the coveted number it once was in my occupation. I could retire now,
    and be okay, but I'd probably find another job. At least my wife says I will.

    I'm working for health care, and like you, money to travel. My health is good,
    but it's a fine line. Knowing when to quit and still have enough on the ball to visit the places I want to see and really enjoy them. My dad is 93, mom 87,
    all four of my grandparents lived pass 85 so, statistically, I've got a few years left.


    I'm a few years older and a few years ahead. I'm pretty much retired
    and living the dream -- I get to go most anywhere I want and live in
    whatever weather I want to. Currently that is Florida in the winter
    and other places in the summer (no fixed address). My wife still works
    a little, and I still get a little income from my business, but we
    don't need to do that if we don't want.

    Our plan is to travel the world at least 3 months a year and travel
    the U.S. the rest of the summer, while we can. We know that only lasts
    so long, and we're doing it up big time while we can. I haven't lost my
    zest for travel at all, and I have done a *lot* of it for the past 5 years.

    --
    "Sooner or later, everyone sits down to a banquet of consequences."
    -- Robert Louis Stevenson

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  • From mercellusb@21:1/5 to Ken Olson on Thu Apr 21 07:09:51 2022
    On Thursday, April 21, 2022 at 8:59:12 AM UTC-5, Ken Olson wrote:
    On 4/21/2022 9:52 AM, mercellusb wrote:
    On Wednesday, April 20, 2022 at 11:02:38 PM UTC-5, Con Reeder, unhyphenated American wrote:
    On 2022-04-19, TE <rando...@gmail.com> wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 1:00:59 PM UTC-4, xyzzy wrote:
    mercellusb <tdr...@gmail.com> wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind
    more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was >>>>> wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as
    opposed to how they felt prior to the last several years.

    Yes and no.

    As 60 approaches I think more about retirement, often in terms of balancing
    having the money to do what I want with having enough good years left to
    enjoy it.

    My financial advisor tells me I can retire now if I have a relatively quiet
    inexpensive retirement. So now I’m working for world travel and private
    aviation in retirement. Hard to know exactly when to call it quits, it’s a
    balance.

    I'm in a similar position. 58 this year, will have 30 years in next year, not that
    that is the coveted number it once was in my occupation. I could retire now,
    and be okay, but I'd probably find another job. At least my wife says I will.

    I'm working for health care, and like you, money to travel. My health is good,
    but it's a fine line. Knowing when to quit and still have enough on the ball
    to visit the places I want to see and really enjoy them. My dad is 93, mom 87,
    all four of my grandparents lived pass 85 so, statistically, I've got a few
    years left.

    I'm a few years older and a few years ahead. I'm pretty much retired
    and living the dream -- I get to go most anywhere I want and live in
    whatever weather I want to. Currently that is Florida in the winter
    and other places in the summer (no fixed address). My wife still works
    a little, and I still get a little income from my business, but we
    don't need to do that if we don't want.

    Our plan is to travel the world at least 3 months a year and travel
    the U.S. the rest of the summer, while we can. We know that only lasts
    so long, and we're doing it up big time while we can. I haven't lost my >> zest for travel at all, and I have done a *lot* of it for the past 5 years.

    --
    "Sooner or later, everyone sits down to a banquet of consequences."
    -- Robert Louis Stevenson
    Congrats to you for living the dream. Looking forward to this myself someday soon. Hope and pray we all remain healthy and hopeful, and can intelligently engage with life, right up until we leave this reality some night while sleeping peacefully.
    Or in personal combat. Valhalla thing, you know.
    --
    ÄLSKAR - Fänga Dagen
    Werd

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  • From Ken Olson@21:1/5 to mercellusb on Thu Apr 21 09:59:06 2022
    On 4/21/2022 9:52 AM, mercellusb wrote:
    On Wednesday, April 20, 2022 at 11:02:38 PM UTC-5, Con Reeder, unhyphenated American wrote:
    On 2022-04-19, TE <rando...@gmail.com> wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 1:00:59 PM UTC-4, xyzzy wrote:
    mercellusb <tdr...@gmail.com> wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind >>>>> more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was >>>>> wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as >>>>> opposed to how they felt prior to the last several years.

    Yes and no.

    As 60 approaches I think more about retirement, often in terms of balancing
    having the money to do what I want with having enough good years left to >>>> enjoy it.

    My financial advisor tells me I can retire now if I have a relatively quiet
    inexpensive retirement. So now I’m working for world travel and private >>>> aviation in retirement. Hard to know exactly when to call it quits, it’s a
    balance.

    I'm in a similar position. 58 this year, will have 30 years in next year, not that
    that is the coveted number it once was in my occupation. I could retire now,
    and be okay, but I'd probably find another job. At least my wife says I will.

    I'm working for health care, and like you, money to travel. My health is good,
    but it's a fine line. Knowing when to quit and still have enough on the ball
    to visit the places I want to see and really enjoy them. My dad is 93, mom 87,
    all four of my grandparents lived pass 85 so, statistically, I've got a few >>> years left.

    I'm a few years older and a few years ahead. I'm pretty much retired
    and living the dream -- I get to go most anywhere I want and live in
    whatever weather I want to. Currently that is Florida in the winter
    and other places in the summer (no fixed address). My wife still works
    a little, and I still get a little income from my business, but we
    don't need to do that if we don't want.

    Our plan is to travel the world at least 3 months a year and travel
    the U.S. the rest of the summer, while we can. We know that only lasts
    so long, and we're doing it up big time while we can. I haven't lost my
    zest for travel at all, and I have done a *lot* of it for the past 5 years. >>
    --
    "Sooner or later, everyone sits down to a banquet of consequences."
    -- Robert Louis Stevenson
    Congrats to you for living the dream. Looking forward to this myself someday soon. Hope and pray we all remain healthy and hopeful, and can intelligently engage with life, right up until we leave this reality some night while sleeping peacefully.

    Or in personal combat. Valhalla thing, you know.

    --
    ÄLSKAR - Fänga Dagen

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  • From mercellusb@21:1/5 to unhyphenated American on Thu Apr 21 06:52:11 2022
    On Wednesday, April 20, 2022 at 11:02:38 PM UTC-5, Con Reeder, unhyphenated American wrote:
    On 2022-04-19, TE <rando...@gmail.com> wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 1:00:59 PM UTC-4, xyzzy wrote:
    mercellusb <tdr...@gmail.com> wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind
    more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was >> > wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as
    opposed to how they felt prior to the last several years.

    Yes and no.

    As 60 approaches I think more about retirement, often in terms of balancing
    having the money to do what I want with having enough good years left to >> enjoy it.

    My financial advisor tells me I can retire now if I have a relatively quiet
    inexpensive retirement. So now I’m working for world travel and private >> aviation in retirement. Hard to know exactly when to call it quits, it’s a
    balance.

    I'm in a similar position. 58 this year, will have 30 years in next year, not that
    that is the coveted number it once was in my occupation. I could retire now,
    and be okay, but I'd probably find another job. At least my wife says I will.

    I'm working for health care, and like you, money to travel. My health is good,
    but it's a fine line. Knowing when to quit and still have enough on the ball
    to visit the places I want to see and really enjoy them. My dad is 93, mom 87,
    all four of my grandparents lived pass 85 so, statistically, I've got a few
    years left.

    I'm a few years older and a few years ahead. I'm pretty much retired
    and living the dream -- I get to go most anywhere I want and live in whatever weather I want to. Currently that is Florida in the winter
    and other places in the summer (no fixed address). My wife still works
    a little, and I still get a little income from my business, but we
    don't need to do that if we don't want.

    Our plan is to travel the world at least 3 months a year and travel
    the U.S. the rest of the summer, while we can. We know that only lasts
    so long, and we're doing it up big time while we can. I haven't lost my
    zest for travel at all, and I have done a *lot* of it for the past 5 years.

    --
    "Sooner or later, everyone sits down to a banquet of consequences."
    -- Robert Louis Stevenson
    Congrats to you for living the dream. Looking forward to this myself someday soon. Hope and pray we all remain healthy and hopeful, and can intelligently engage with life, right up until we leave this reality some night while sleeping peacefully.

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  • From xyzzy@21:1/5 to Ken Olson on Thu Apr 21 15:08:01 2022
    Ken Olson <kolson@freedomnet.org> wrote:
    On 4/21/2022 9:52 AM, mercellusb wrote:
    On Wednesday, April 20, 2022 at 11:02:38 PM UTC-5, Con Reeder,
    unhyphenated American wrote:
    On 2022-04-19, TE <rando...@gmail.com> wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 1:00:59 PM UTC-4, xyzzy wrote:
    mercellusb <tdr...@gmail.com> wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind >>>>>> more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was >>>>>> wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as >>>>>> opposed to how they felt prior to the last several years.

    Yes and no.

    As 60 approaches I think more about retirement, often in terms of balancing
    having the money to do what I want with having enough good years left to >>>>> enjoy it.

    My financial advisor tells me I can retire now if I have a relatively quiet
    inexpensive retirement. So now I’m working for world travel and private >>>>> aviation in retirement. Hard to know exactly when to call it quits, it’s a
    balance.

    I'm in a similar position. 58 this year, will have 30 years in next year, not that
    that is the coveted number it once was in my occupation. I could retire now,
    and be okay, but I'd probably find another job. At least my wife says I will.

    I'm working for health care, and like you, money to travel. My health is good,
    but it's a fine line. Knowing when to quit and still have enough on the ball
    to visit the places I want to see and really enjoy them. My dad is 93, mom 87,
    all four of my grandparents lived pass 85 so, statistically, I've got a few
    years left.

    I'm a few years older and a few years ahead. I'm pretty much retired
    and living the dream -- I get to go most anywhere I want and live in
    whatever weather I want to. Currently that is Florida in the winter
    and other places in the summer (no fixed address). My wife still works
    a little, and I still get a little income from my business, but we
    don't need to do that if we don't want.

    Our plan is to travel the world at least 3 months a year and travel
    the U.S. the rest of the summer, while we can. We know that only lasts
    so long, and we're doing it up big time while we can. I haven't lost my
    zest for travel at all, and I have done a *lot* of it for the past 5 years. >>>
    --
    "Sooner or later, everyone sits down to a banquet of consequences."
    -- Robert Louis Stevenson
    Congrats to you for living the dream. Looking forward to this myself
    someday soon. Hope and pray we all remain healthy and hopeful, and can
    intelligently engage with life, right up until we leave this reality
    some night while sleeping peacefully.

    Or in personal combat. Valhalla thing, you know.


    Whatever burns your funeral boat I guess.

    --
    “I usually skip over your posts because of your disguistng, contrarian, liberal personality.” — Altie

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  • From Ken Olson@21:1/5 to Ted Heise on Thu Apr 21 12:00:32 2022
    On 4/21/2022 11:49 AM, Ted Heise wrote:
    On Thu, 21 Apr 2022 11:17:28 -0400,
    Ken Olson <kolson@freedomnet.org> wrote:
    On 4/21/2022 11:08 AM, xyzzy wrote:
    Ken Olson <kolson@freedomnet.org> wrote:
    On 4/21/2022 9:52 AM, mercellusb wrote:
    On Wednesday, April 20, 2022 at 11:02:38 PM UTC-5, Con Reeder,
    unhyphenated American wrote:
    On 2022-04-19, TE <rando...@gmail.com> wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 1:00:59 PM UTC-4, xyzzy wrote:
    mercellusb <tdr...@gmail.com> wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind
    more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was
    wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as
    opposed to how they felt prior to the last several years.

    Yes and no.

    As 60 approaches I think more about retirement, often in terms of balancing
    having the money to do what I want with having enough good years left to
    enjoy it.

    My financial advisor tells me I can retire now if I have a relatively quiet
    inexpensive retirement. So now I???m working for world travel and private
    aviation in retirement. Hard to know exactly when to call it quits, it???s a
    balance.

    I'm in a similar position. 58 this year, will have 30 years in next year, not that
    that is the coveted number it once was in my occupation. I could retire now,
    and be okay, but I'd probably find another job. At least my wife says I will.

    I'm working for health care, and like you, money to travel. My health is good,
    but it's a fine line. Knowing when to quit and still have enough on the ball
    to visit the places I want to see and really enjoy them. My dad is 93, mom 87,
    all four of my grandparents lived pass 85 so, statistically, I've got a few
    years left.

    I'm a few years older and a few years ahead. I'm pretty much retired >>>>>> and living the dream -- I get to go most anywhere I want and live in >>>>>> whatever weather I want to. Currently that is Florida in the winter >>>>>> and other places in the summer (no fixed address). My wife still works >>>>>> a little, and I still get a little income from my business, but we >>>>>> don't need to do that if we don't want.

    Our plan is to travel the world at least 3 months a year and travel >>>>>> the U.S. the rest of the summer, while we can. We know that only lasts >>>>>> so long, and we're doing it up big time while we can. I haven't lost my >>>>>> zest for travel at all, and I have done a *lot* of it for the past 5 years.

    --
    "Sooner or later, everyone sits down to a banquet of consequences." >>>>>> -- Robert Louis Stevenson
    Congrats to you for living the dream. Looking forward to this myself >>>>> someday soon. Hope and pray we all remain healthy and hopeful, and can >>>>> intelligently engage with life, right up until we leave this reality >>>>> some night while sleeping peacefully.

    Or in personal combat. Valhalla thing, you know.


    Whatever burns your funeral boat I guess.


    I hope you're not taking me seriously. My dream death would be more
    like crashing while in the Isle of Man TT.

    Time trials? Ugh.


    Tourist Trophy. 200+ mph.

    --
    ÄLSKAR - Fänga Dagen

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  • From Ken Olson@21:1/5 to xyzzy on Thu Apr 21 11:17:28 2022
    On 4/21/2022 11:08 AM, xyzzy wrote:
    Ken Olson <kolson@freedomnet.org> wrote:
    On 4/21/2022 9:52 AM, mercellusb wrote:
    On Wednesday, April 20, 2022 at 11:02:38 PM UTC-5, Con Reeder,
    unhyphenated American wrote:
    On 2022-04-19, TE <rando...@gmail.com> wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 1:00:59 PM UTC-4, xyzzy wrote:
    mercellusb <tdr...@gmail.com> wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind
    more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was >>>>>>> wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as
    opposed to how they felt prior to the last several years.

    Yes and no.

    As 60 approaches I think more about retirement, often in terms of balancing
    having the money to do what I want with having enough good years left to >>>>>> enjoy it.

    My financial advisor tells me I can retire now if I have a relatively quiet
    inexpensive retirement. So now I’m working for world travel and private
    aviation in retirement. Hard to know exactly when to call it quits, it’s a
    balance.

    I'm in a similar position. 58 this year, will have 30 years in next year, not that
    that is the coveted number it once was in my occupation. I could retire now,
    and be okay, but I'd probably find another job. At least my wife says I will.

    I'm working for health care, and like you, money to travel. My health is good,
    but it's a fine line. Knowing when to quit and still have enough on the ball
    to visit the places I want to see and really enjoy them. My dad is 93, mom 87,
    all four of my grandparents lived pass 85 so, statistically, I've got a few
    years left.

    I'm a few years older and a few years ahead. I'm pretty much retired
    and living the dream -- I get to go most anywhere I want and live in
    whatever weather I want to. Currently that is Florida in the winter
    and other places in the summer (no fixed address). My wife still works >>>> a little, and I still get a little income from my business, but we
    don't need to do that if we don't want.

    Our plan is to travel the world at least 3 months a year and travel
    the U.S. the rest of the summer, while we can. We know that only lasts >>>> so long, and we're doing it up big time while we can. I haven't lost my >>>> zest for travel at all, and I have done a *lot* of it for the past 5 years.

    --
    "Sooner or later, everyone sits down to a banquet of consequences."
    -- Robert Louis Stevenson
    Congrats to you for living the dream. Looking forward to this myself
    someday soon. Hope and pray we all remain healthy and hopeful, and can
    intelligently engage with life, right up until we leave this reality
    some night while sleeping peacefully.

    Or in personal combat. Valhalla thing, you know.


    Whatever burns your funeral boat I guess.


    I hope you're not taking me seriously. My dream death would be more
    like crashing while in the Isle of Man TT.

    --
    ÄLSKAR - Fänga Dagen

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  • From Ted Heise@21:1/5 to Ken Olson on Thu Apr 21 15:49:41 2022
    On Thu, 21 Apr 2022 11:17:28 -0400,
    Ken Olson <kolson@freedomnet.org> wrote:
    On 4/21/2022 11:08 AM, xyzzy wrote:
    Ken Olson <kolson@freedomnet.org> wrote:
    On 4/21/2022 9:52 AM, mercellusb wrote:
    On Wednesday, April 20, 2022 at 11:02:38 PM UTC-5, Con Reeder,
    unhyphenated American wrote:
    On 2022-04-19, TE <rando...@gmail.com> wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 1:00:59 PM UTC-4, xyzzy wrote:
    mercellusb <tdr...@gmail.com> wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind
    more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was
    wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as
    opposed to how they felt prior to the last several years.

    Yes and no.

    As 60 approaches I think more about retirement, often in terms of balancing
    having the money to do what I want with having enough good years left to
    enjoy it.

    My financial advisor tells me I can retire now if I have a relatively quiet
    inexpensive retirement. So now I???m working for world travel and private
    aviation in retirement. Hard to know exactly when to call it quits, it???s a
    balance.

    I'm in a similar position. 58 this year, will have 30 years in next year, not that
    that is the coveted number it once was in my occupation. I could retire now,
    and be okay, but I'd probably find another job. At least my wife says I will.

    I'm working for health care, and like you, money to travel. My health is good,
    but it's a fine line. Knowing when to quit and still have enough on the ball
    to visit the places I want to see and really enjoy them. My dad is 93, mom 87,
    all four of my grandparents lived pass 85 so, statistically, I've got a few
    years left.

    I'm a few years older and a few years ahead. I'm pretty much retired >>>> and living the dream -- I get to go most anywhere I want and live in >>>> whatever weather I want to. Currently that is Florida in the winter
    and other places in the summer (no fixed address). My wife still works >>>> a little, and I still get a little income from my business, but we
    don't need to do that if we don't want.

    Our plan is to travel the world at least 3 months a year and travel
    the U.S. the rest of the summer, while we can. We know that only lasts >>>> so long, and we're doing it up big time while we can. I haven't lost my >>>> zest for travel at all, and I have done a *lot* of it for the past 5 years.

    --
    "Sooner or later, everyone sits down to a banquet of consequences."
    -- Robert Louis Stevenson
    Congrats to you for living the dream. Looking forward to this myself
    someday soon. Hope and pray we all remain healthy and hopeful, and can >>> intelligently engage with life, right up until we leave this reality
    some night while sleeping peacefully.

    Or in personal combat. Valhalla thing, you know.


    Whatever burns your funeral boat I guess.


    I hope you're not taking me seriously. My dream death would be more
    like crashing while in the Isle of Man TT.

    Time trials? Ugh.

    --
    Ted Heise <theise@panix.com> West Lafayette, IN, USA

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  • From Ken Olson@21:1/5 to Ted Heise on Thu Apr 21 12:56:23 2022
    On 4/21/2022 12:38 PM, Ted Heise wrote:
    On Thu, 21 Apr 2022 12:00:32 -0400,
    Ken Olson <kolson@freedomnet.org> wrote:
    On 4/21/2022 11:49 AM, Ted Heise wrote:
    On Thu, 21 Apr 2022 11:17:28 -0400,
    Ken Olson <kolson@freedomnet.org> wrote:
    On 4/21/2022 11:08 AM, xyzzy wrote:
    Ken Olson <kolson@freedomnet.org> wrote:
    On 4/21/2022 9:52 AM, mercellusb wrote:
    On Wednesday, April 20, 2022 at 11:02:38 PM UTC-5, Con Reeder,
    unhyphenated American wrote:
    On 2022-04-19, TE <rando...@gmail.com> wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 1:00:59 PM UTC-4, xyzzy wrote: >>>>>>>>>> mercellusb <tdr...@gmail.com> wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind
    more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was
    wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as
    opposed to how they felt prior to the last several years. >>>>>>>>>>>
    Yes and no.

    As 60 approaches I think more about retirement, often in terms of balancing
    having the money to do what I want with having enough good years left to
    enjoy it.

    My financial advisor tells me I can retire now if I have a relatively quiet
    inexpensive retirement. So now I???m working for world travel and private
    aviation in retirement. Hard to know exactly when to call it quits, it???s a
    balance.

    I'm in a similar position. 58 this year, will have 30 years in next year, not that
    that is the coveted number it once was in my occupation. I could retire now,
    and be okay, but I'd probably find another job. At least my wife says I will.

    I'm working for health care, and like you, money to travel. My health is good,
    but it's a fine line. Knowing when to quit and still have enough on the ball
    to visit the places I want to see and really enjoy them. My dad is 93, mom 87,
    all four of my grandparents lived pass 85 so, statistically, I've got a few
    years left.

    I'm a few years older and a few years ahead. I'm pretty much retired >>>>>>>> and living the dream -- I get to go most anywhere I want and live in >>>>>>>> whatever weather I want to. Currently that is Florida in the winter >>>>>>>> and other places in the summer (no fixed address). My wife still works >>>>>>>> a little, and I still get a little income from my business, but we >>>>>>>> don't need to do that if we don't want.

    Our plan is to travel the world at least 3 months a year and travel >>>>>>>> the U.S. the rest of the summer, while we can. We know that only lasts >>>>>>>> so long, and we're doing it up big time while we can. I haven't lost my
    zest for travel at all, and I have done a *lot* of it for the past 5 years.

    --
    "Sooner or later, everyone sits down to a banquet of consequences." >>>>>>>> -- Robert Louis Stevenson
    Congrats to you for living the dream. Looking forward to this myself >>>>>>> someday soon. Hope and pray we all remain healthy and hopeful, and can >>>>>>> intelligently engage with life, right up until we leave this reality >>>>>>> some night while sleeping peacefully.

    Or in personal combat. Valhalla thing, you know.


    Whatever burns your funeral boat I guess.


    I hope you're not taking me seriously. My dream death would be more >>>> like crashing while in the Isle of Man TT.

    Time trials? Ugh.

    Tourist Trophy. 200+ mph.

    Now that I can get behind.


    Me want a H2R for the ride.

    --
    ÄLSKAR - Fänga Dagen

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  • From Ted Heise@21:1/5 to Ken Olson on Thu Apr 21 16:38:30 2022
    On Thu, 21 Apr 2022 12:00:32 -0400,
    Ken Olson <kolson@freedomnet.org> wrote:
    On 4/21/2022 11:49 AM, Ted Heise wrote:
    On Thu, 21 Apr 2022 11:17:28 -0400,
    Ken Olson <kolson@freedomnet.org> wrote:
    On 4/21/2022 11:08 AM, xyzzy wrote:
    Ken Olson <kolson@freedomnet.org> wrote:
    On 4/21/2022 9:52 AM, mercellusb wrote:
    On Wednesday, April 20, 2022 at 11:02:38 PM UTC-5, Con Reeder,
    unhyphenated American wrote:
    On 2022-04-19, TE <rando...@gmail.com> wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 1:00:59 PM UTC-4, xyzzy wrote:
    mercellusb <tdr...@gmail.com> wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind
    more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was
    wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as
    opposed to how they felt prior to the last several years.

    Yes and no.

    As 60 approaches I think more about retirement, often in terms of balancing
    having the money to do what I want with having enough good years left to
    enjoy it.

    My financial advisor tells me I can retire now if I have a relatively quiet
    inexpensive retirement. So now I???m working for world travel and private
    aviation in retirement. Hard to know exactly when to call it quits, it???s a
    balance.

    I'm in a similar position. 58 this year, will have 30 years in next year, not that
    that is the coveted number it once was in my occupation. I could retire now,
    and be okay, but I'd probably find another job. At least my wife says I will.

    I'm working for health care, and like you, money to travel. My health is good,
    but it's a fine line. Knowing when to quit and still have enough on the ball
    to visit the places I want to see and really enjoy them. My dad is 93, mom 87,
    all four of my grandparents lived pass 85 so, statistically, I've got a few
    years left.

    I'm a few years older and a few years ahead. I'm pretty much retired >>>>>> and living the dream -- I get to go most anywhere I want and live in >>>>>> whatever weather I want to. Currently that is Florida in the winter >>>>>> and other places in the summer (no fixed address). My wife still works >>>>>> a little, and I still get a little income from my business, but we >>>>>> don't need to do that if we don't want.

    Our plan is to travel the world at least 3 months a year and travel >>>>>> the U.S. the rest of the summer, while we can. We know that only lasts >>>>>> so long, and we're doing it up big time while we can. I haven't lost my
    zest for travel at all, and I have done a *lot* of it for the past 5 years.

    --
    "Sooner or later, everyone sits down to a banquet of consequences." >>>>>> -- Robert Louis Stevenson
    Congrats to you for living the dream. Looking forward to this myself >>>>> someday soon. Hope and pray we all remain healthy and hopeful, and can >>>>> intelligently engage with life, right up until we leave this reality >>>>> some night while sleeping peacefully.

    Or in personal combat. Valhalla thing, you know.


    Whatever burns your funeral boat I guess.


    I hope you're not taking me seriously. My dream death would be more
    like crashing while in the Isle of Man TT.

    Time trials? Ugh.

    Tourist Trophy. 200+ mph.

    Now that I can get behind.

    --
    Ted Heise <theise@panix.com> West Lafayette, IN, USA

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  • From xyzzy@21:1/5 to Ken Olson on Thu Apr 21 18:33:19 2022
    Ken Olson <kolson@freedomnet.org> wrote:
    On 4/21/2022 11:08 AM, xyzzy wrote:
    Ken Olson <kolson@freedomnet.org> wrote:
    On 4/21/2022 9:52 AM, mercellusb wrote:
    On Wednesday, April 20, 2022 at 11:02:38 PM UTC-5, Con Reeder,
    unhyphenated American wrote:
    On 2022-04-19, TE <rando...@gmail.com> wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 1:00:59 PM UTC-4, xyzzy wrote:
    mercellusb <tdr...@gmail.com> wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind
    more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was >>>>>>>> wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as
    opposed to how they felt prior to the last several years.

    Yes and no.

    As 60 approaches I think more about retirement, often in terms of balancing
    having the money to do what I want with having enough good years left to
    enjoy it.

    My financial advisor tells me I can retire now if I have a relatively quiet
    inexpensive retirement. So now I’m working for world travel and private
    aviation in retirement. Hard to know exactly when to call it quits, it’s a
    balance.

    I'm in a similar position. 58 this year, will have 30 years in next year, not that
    that is the coveted number it once was in my occupation. I could retire now,
    and be okay, but I'd probably find another job. At least my wife says I will.

    I'm working for health care, and like you, money to travel. My health is good,
    but it's a fine line. Knowing when to quit and still have enough on the ball
    to visit the places I want to see and really enjoy them. My dad is 93, mom 87,
    all four of my grandparents lived pass 85 so, statistically, I've got a few
    years left.

    I'm a few years older and a few years ahead. I'm pretty much retired >>>>> and living the dream -- I get to go most anywhere I want and live in >>>>> whatever weather I want to. Currently that is Florida in the winter
    and other places in the summer (no fixed address). My wife still works >>>>> a little, and I still get a little income from my business, but we
    don't need to do that if we don't want.

    Our plan is to travel the world at least 3 months a year and travel
    the U.S. the rest of the summer, while we can. We know that only lasts >>>>> so long, and we're doing it up big time while we can. I haven't lost my >>>>> zest for travel at all, and I have done a *lot* of it for the past 5 years.

    --
    "Sooner or later, everyone sits down to a banquet of consequences."
    -- Robert Louis Stevenson
    Congrats to you for living the dream. Looking forward to this myself
    someday soon. Hope and pray we all remain healthy and hopeful, and can >>>> intelligently engage with life, right up until we leave this reality
    some night while sleeping peacefully.

    Or in personal combat. Valhalla thing, you know.


    Whatever burns your funeral boat I guess.


    I hope you're not taking me seriously.

    Of course not, I was playing off your Viking references. If I was taking
    you seriously I would have said “no wonder you can’t help responding to Falkiner’s trolls”.

    Heh.

    My dream death would be more
    like crashing while in the Isle of Man TT.




    --
    “I usually skip over your posts because of your disguistng, contrarian, liberal personality.” — Altie

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  • From Plaidmoon@21:1/5 to mercellusb on Thu Apr 21 13:29:37 2022
    On Tuesday, April 19, 2022 at 6:25:25 AM UTC-7, mercellusb wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 11:58:46 AM UTC-5, Plaidmoon wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 8:53:58 AM UTC-7, mercellusb wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 10:52:45 AM UTC-5, mercellusb wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as opposed to how they felt
    prior to the last several years.

    I'll also add that I thought I was going to lose my spousal unit a few weeks ago and that made an impression.
    Thoughts about our mortality a natural response to nearly losing a loved one. I've been having them too. For me, it was 2 major surgeries and 17 days in the hospital for a ruptured ulcer (I never knew I had an ulcer!) and months off work getting my
    strength back. My surgeon was very worried for me before the second surgery but I pulled through just fine. I'm still only about 85% of what I was before but continuing to improve. Also, watching my wife in constant pain from a bad back lets me know that
    we're both getting older. I'm still planning to work another 5 years, but my co-workers think I'm crazy not to retire now. Maybe I'll change my mind or have another medical issue. We'll see what life has in store for us.
    I do wish the best for outcomes and your wife. Chronic back pain is terrible.

    Thanks. She has her good days and her bad days, but she’s still living her life mostly as she wants to. She probably will need back surgery at some point, but she’s trying to avoid it as long as possible. She’s lost quite a bit of weight, which is
    helping somewhat.

    As for me, I’m doing pretty well. I’ve lost about 50 pounds and there’s no sign of further stomach problems. I’m diabetic and the weight loss and better food choices have gotten my blood sugar into the normal range for the first time in a quite a
    few years. I’m also taking less medication for it. I do have a hernia from the ulcer surgery and I’ll probably have more surgery to fix that at some point. First up is a long overdue Covid delayed colonoscopy in June. Oh joy! I can’t tell you how
    much I’m looking forward to 24-36 hours on the toilet in advance of that.

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  • From mercellusb@21:1/5 to Plaidmoon on Thu Apr 21 14:29:52 2022
    On Thursday, April 21, 2022 at 3:29:39 PM UTC-5, Plaidmoon wrote:
    On Tuesday, April 19, 2022 at 6:25:25 AM UTC-7, mercellusb wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 11:58:46 AM UTC-5, Plaidmoon wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 8:53:58 AM UTC-7, mercellusb wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 10:52:45 AM UTC-5, mercellusb wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as opposed to how they felt
    prior to the last several years.

    I'll also add that I thought I was going to lose my spousal unit a few weeks ago and that made an impression.
    Thoughts about our mortality a natural response to nearly losing a loved one. I've been having them too. For me, it was 2 major surgeries and 17 days in the hospital for a ruptured ulcer (I never knew I had an ulcer!) and months off work getting my
    strength back. My surgeon was very worried for me before the second surgery but I pulled through just fine. I'm still only about 85% of what I was before but continuing to improve. Also, watching my wife in constant pain from a bad back lets me know that
    we're both getting older. I'm still planning to work another 5 years, but my co-workers think I'm crazy not to retire now. Maybe I'll change my mind or have another medical issue. We'll see what life has in store for us.
    I do wish the best for outcomes and your wife. Chronic back pain is terrible.
    Thanks. She has her good days and her bad days, but she’s still living her life mostly as she wants to. She probably will need back surgery at some point, but she’s trying to avoid it as long as possible. She’s lost quite a bit of weight, which
    is helping somewhat.

    As for me, I’m doing pretty well. I’ve lost about 50 pounds and there’s no sign of further stomach problems. I’m diabetic and the weight loss and better food choices have gotten my blood sugar into the normal range for the first time in a quite
    a few years. I’m also taking less medication for it. I do have a hernia from the ulcer surgery and I’ll probably have more surgery to fix that at some point. First up is a long overdue Covid delayed colonoscopy in June. Oh joy! I can’t tell you how
    much I’m looking forward to 24-36 hours on the toilet in advance of that.

    Losing weight and getting core muscles beefed up can solve a lot of health issues. I truly believe that if most of the old people I see barely getting around would take two weeks with a trainer to slowly build up their core muscles, they would experience
    a great improvement in life quality. Not everyone has the money to do this, but with medicare and silver sneakers gym programs, most seniors can do this without much out-of-pocket expense.

    I'm back to swimming laps, the elliptical, and lifting weights and feel much better. I've been a big guy all my life, muscular and big when young, but now, mostly a blob; but getting better.

    If you are doing the traditional colonoscopy prep: My only advice is to make sure to go with a low-fiber diet and eat less for a few days prior to the day you fast and take all the poop goop. I had to have two colonoscopies recently, only 3 months apart,
    and it really made a difference to eat less and make sure it's low fiber. The time on the toilet starts out messy but quickly changes to just painlessly expelling a lot of liquid that will be clear. If you eat a lot and have high fiber, the time spent on
    the toilet is a literal pain in the arse. The material you get from the doctor will have a low-fiber diet recommendation probably, but I did low fiber for longer than the recommendation.

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  • From Ted Heise@21:1/5 to Plaidmoon on Fri Apr 22 01:12:07 2022
    On Thu, 21 Apr 2022 13:29:37 -0700 (PDT),
    Plaidmoon <plaidmoon@gmail.com> wrote:
    On Tuesday, April 19, 2022 at 6:25:25 AM UTC-7, mercellusb wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 11:58:46 AM UTC-5, Plaidmoon wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 8:53:58 AM UTC-7, mercellusb wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 10:52:45 AM UTC-5, mercellusb wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as opposed to how they felt
    prior to the last several years.

    I'll also add that I thought I was going to lose my
    spousal unit a few weeks ago and that made an impression.
    Thoughts about our mortality a natural response to nearly
    losing a loved one. I've been having them too. For me, it
    was 2 major surgeries and 17 days in the hospital for a
    ruptured ulcer (I never knew I had an ulcer!) and months off
    work getting my strength back. My surgeon was very worried
    for me before the second surgery but I pulled through just
    fine. I'm still only about 85% of what I was before but
    continuing to improve. Also, watching my wife in constant
    pain from a bad back lets me know that we're both getting
    older. I'm still planning to work another 5 years, but my
    co-workers think I'm crazy not to retire now. Maybe I'll
    change my mind or have another medical issue. We'll see what
    life has in store for us.
    I do wish the best for outcomes and your wife. Chronic back
    pain is terrible.

    Thanks. She has her good days and her bad days, but she???s
    still living her life mostly as she wants to. She probably will
    need back surgery at some point, but she???s trying to avoid it
    as long as possible. She???s lost quite a bit of weight, which
    is helping somewhat.

    As for me, I???m doing pretty well. I???ve lost about 50 pounds
    and there???s no sign of further stomach problems. I???m
    diabetic and the weight loss and better food choices have
    gotten my blood sugar into the normal range for the first time
    in a quite a few years. I???m also taking less medication for
    it. I do have a hernia from the ulcer surgery and I???ll
    probably have more surgery to fix that at some point. First up
    is a long overdue Covid delayed colonoscopy in June. Oh joy! I
    can???t tell you how much I???m looking forward to 24-36 hours
    on the toilet in advance of that.

    If it's been ten years, you may be pleasantly surprised at the new
    regimen. It uses PEG and takes effect more quickly--shorter time
    on the commode.

    --
    Ted Heise <theise@panix.com> West Lafayette, IN, USA

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  • From Con Reeder, unhyphenated American@21:1/5 to Ken Olson on Sat Apr 23 11:26:45 2022
    On 2022-04-21, Ken Olson <kolson@freedomnet.org> wrote:
    On 4/21/2022 11:08 AM, xyzzy wrote:
    Ken Olson <kolson@freedomnet.org> wrote:
    On 4/21/2022 9:52 AM, mercellusb wrote:
    On Wednesday, April 20, 2022 at 11:02:38 PM UTC-5, Con Reeder,
    unhyphenated American wrote:
    On 2022-04-19, TE <rando...@gmail.com> wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 1:00:59 PM UTC-4, xyzzy wrote:
    mercellusb <tdr...@gmail.com> wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind
    more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was >>>>>>>> wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as
    opposed to how they felt prior to the last several years.

    Yes and no.

    As 60 approaches I think more about retirement, often in terms of balancing
    having the money to do what I want with having enough good years left to
    enjoy it.

    My financial advisor tells me I can retire now if I have a relatively quiet
    inexpensive retirement. So now I’m working for world travel and private
    aviation in retirement. Hard to know exactly when to call it quits, it’s a
    balance.

    I'm in a similar position. 58 this year, will have 30 years in next year, not that
    that is the coveted number it once was in my occupation. I could retire now,
    and be okay, but I'd probably find another job. At least my wife says I will.

    I'm working for health care, and like you, money to travel. My health is good,
    but it's a fine line. Knowing when to quit and still have enough on the ball
    to visit the places I want to see and really enjoy them. My dad is 93, mom 87,
    all four of my grandparents lived pass 85 so, statistically, I've got a few
    years left.

    I'm a few years older and a few years ahead. I'm pretty much retired >>>>> and living the dream -- I get to go most anywhere I want and live in >>>>> whatever weather I want to. Currently that is Florida in the winter
    and other places in the summer (no fixed address). My wife still works >>>>> a little, and I still get a little income from my business, but we
    don't need to do that if we don't want.

    Our plan is to travel the world at least 3 months a year and travel
    the U.S. the rest of the summer, while we can. We know that only lasts >>>>> so long, and we're doing it up big time while we can. I haven't lost my >>>>> zest for travel at all, and I have done a *lot* of it for the past 5 years.

    --
    "Sooner or later, everyone sits down to a banquet of consequences."
    -- Robert Louis Stevenson
    Congrats to you for living the dream. Looking forward to this myself
    someday soon. Hope and pray we all remain healthy and hopeful, and can >>>> intelligently engage with life, right up until we leave this reality
    some night while sleeping peacefully.

    Or in personal combat. Valhalla thing, you know.


    Whatever burns your funeral boat I guess.


    I hope you're not taking me seriously. My dream death would be more
    like crashing while in the Isle of Man TT.


    ...Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving
    safely in one pretty and well preserved piece, but to slide across the
    finish line broadside, thoroughly used up, worn out, leaking oil, and
    shouting GERONIMO!!! -- Bill McKenna

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  • From Con Reeder, unhyphenated American@21:1/5 to Plaidmoon on Sat Apr 23 11:29:17 2022
    On 2022-04-21, Plaidmoon <plaidmoon@gmail.com> wrote:
    On Tuesday, April 19, 2022 at 6:25:25 AM UTC-7, mercellusb wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 11:58:46 AM UTC-5, Plaidmoon wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 8:53:58 AM UTC-7, mercellusb wrote:
    On Monday, April 18, 2022 at 10:52:45 AM UTC-5, mercellusb wrote:
    My thoughts on my mortality and the mortality of others weigh on my mind more and more. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm getting old but was wondering if younger people are having these thoughts more often now, as opposed to how they felt
    prior to the last several years.

    I'll also add that I thought I was going to lose my spousal unit a few weeks ago and that made an impression.
    Thoughts about our mortality a natural response to nearly losing a loved one. I've been having them too. For me, it was 2 major surgeries and 17 days in the hospital for a ruptured ulcer (I never knew I had an ulcer!) and months off work getting my
    strength back. My surgeon was very worried for me before the second surgery but I pulled through just fine. I'm still only about 85% of what I was before but continuing to improve. Also, watching my wife in constant pain from a bad back lets me know that
    we're both getting older. I'm still planning to work another 5 years, but my co-workers think I'm crazy not to retire now. Maybe I'll change my mind or have another medical issue. We'll see what life has in store for us.
    I do wish the best for outcomes and your wife. Chronic back pain is terrible.

    Thanks. She has her good days and her bad days, but she’s still
    living her life mostly as she wants to. She probably will need back
    surgery at some point, but she’s trying to avoid it as long as
    possible. She’s lost quite a bit of weight, which is helping
    somewhat.

    Ever tried the McKenzie method?

    https://www.amazon.com/Steps-Pain-Free-Life-Rapidly-Shoulder/dp/0142180696

    --
    Life isn't fair, but it's good. -- Regina Brett

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