I am disabled with spinal issues. Progressive Degenerative Disc Disease. Every year, I lose a little bit more mobility. I got damaged in a speedboat
attack in the Gulf but already had issues.
I sumetimes have to use a wheelchair such as the long lines to get myCovid
shots (limited standing capability at 15 minutes pretty much). Isometimes
use a cane. I was blessed with extremely high pain tolerance so it works out with 7 herniated discs.
Yes, I work. Did 26 years Navy then 10 years military contractor and now Government Civilian (GS).
ADANET founding member, I was the technical advisor. (American Disability Network).
I am disabled with spinal issues. Progressive Degenerative Disc Disease. Every year, I lose a little bit more mobility. I got damaged in a speedboat
attack in the Gulf but already had issues.
Ouch! You had your lifejacket on?
I sumetimes have to use a wheelchair such as the long lines to get myCovid
shots (limited standing capability at 15 minutes pretty much). Isometimes
use a cane. I was blessed with extremely high pain tolerance so it works out with 7 herniated discs.
I'm not much for standing long either, so I appreciate having my powerchair when out in the community (shopping, etc); Typically I'll ber in line for a cashier & some older gent(or lady) will offer to let me go first. Io reply, "Thank you, but you go ahead. I'm sitting down so it's easier for me!" (I well recall prior to my chair being in line with a cane & the pain & concern I'd suddenly drop.)
I have an exploded disc myself (a family thing, it seems); a local chiropracter offered to fix it, after a free assessment for his spinal decompression service, but at $8K (not covered by my government health insurance, probably because chiropracters are butchers &/or tend to be chronically needed for life once you begin)
I'm on Gabapentin to stop the nerve pain & neuropathy in my legs.
Yes, I work. Did 26 years Navy then 10 years military contractor and now Government Civilian (GS).
Pre speedboat incident?
ADANET founding member, I was the technical advisor. (American Disabilit Network).
I have begun reading the ADA, to prepare for advising on the recently passed Accessible Canada Act.
Only one problem with your ADA - cedrtain less than ethical lawyers use it.
I Cali, they use Google Earth to identify hotels with swimming pools, then hire a person in a wheelchair to go to the hotel to stay & file a suit for non-compliance for inaccessible pool (most are, apparently)
We don't leave room for that, but we do have the ability to fine a non- compliant federally regulated player (e.g airline) up to $250,000/day until the problem is resolved.
It;s still quite new, so it remains to be sesen how well it was set up. The person in charge is focusing first on ensuring equal employment opportunities, regardless of ability barriers.
I'm spending most of my t ime working with local government & non-profits to ensure true inclusion for all, regardless of age, disability, &/or poverty. My pet foci are housing & employment.
I don't get dirtectly paid for this, but I do receive provincial(equiv to your state jurisdiction) disability benefits & I consider his my pay that I work in the community to justify. I'm looking for a paid career, hopefully i community service, as I've built a strong personal network of decison makers & advocates.
Had my shot(Pfizer) a couple weeks ago -- no line, the nurse came to my home
Nice to meet you *bow*
Whereabouts are you? I'm an hour north of Seattle, WA, in Vancouver, BC, Canada. . . (home of the shameful 2010 NHL riot & 2010 winter olympics)
What do you do for fun/laughs?
Your friend,
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Cyberpope, Bishop of ROM
Hi George, sorry for the bad quoting.
My back was having issues before the speed boat. That just made it worse.
I am well south of you in Virginia Beach. Probaby 4,000 miles SE of you. Might be more.
For laughs, I mostly garden (container type), watch youtube, and amengadged
in local issues and helping others out. I adopt older medical issue dogs and cats that no one else will.
Once I retire, I may go back to being foster-meowmie for cats.
[big snip]
Hi George, sorry for the bad quoting.
No worries -- we all started there! ;)
My back was having issues before the speed boat. That just made it worse.
I am well south of you in Virginia Beach. Probaby 4,000 miles SE of you. Might be more.
Oh, sorry, thought you mentioned Seattle. . .
I knew a lady in San Diego who taught the extreme survival clasess to the Navy(& others)
So you're east coast, halfway up or so? I'm on the (B)est Coast. . .
Lived in the Beast, one winter -- that cured me!
For laughs, I mostly garden (container type), watch youtube, and amengadged
in local issues and helping others out. I adopt older medical issue dogs and cats that no one else will.
Once I retire, I may go back to being foster-meowmie for cats.
Meowmie, eh? Cute! I had a wonderful cat who died at age 16 of kidney issues She was comatose, & since we didn't now if she was feeling pain still, I had the vet give her the needle -- I cried. . .
I had her 14 years, so can't complain, TOO much, but I still miss her & wish I had had more time with her. . .
What kinds of local issues? I choose to involve myself with the city affairs including keeping an eye on the councilors at most every monthly meeting, & speaking up when I feel the need & it's open to the public (usually prior to the first agenda presentation item.)
I'm involved in advising the city managers, too, on disability &/or poverty issues.
It's a good city, especially as they welcome & are responsive to, input from the public at all levels. . .
I'm not having as much success advocating federally -- provincially(equiv. t your state level politics), sure, but the feds don't seem to shiv a git!
I feel like your moderates & progressives when they were trying to be heard in DC, in 2016 & 2020! :(
Your friend,
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Cyberpope, Bishop of ROM
Sorry for delay! I started a new job and kinda let Fido be on autopilotfor
a bit.
not to worry on the area I live in. Navy, 26 years, lived lots of left coastsince
and Hawaii, then Japan. Been back in 'Hampton Roads' (Virginia beach, suffolk, Chesapeake, Norfolk, Hampton, Newport News, Williamburg etc.)
2007.
On local stuff I do, well tends to be very direct. Neighbor, now good friend has MS and Lupus. She asked how much a wheelchair ramp costs to build on a house. I and some 50 others built it with donated materialsand
labor.(fridge,
Then there was a fellow with no electricity for the last 10 years and no heat headed at his 5th year. He needed help decluttering, wood burner chimney repair, funds. Nothing electric in the house still worked
stove, washer, dryer, hot water heater). Most electric lines had been rat chewn so wall rip out and replacement then the ceiling collapsed due toold
house and 60 year old drywall nails. Go-Fund-me set for 2,000$ hit 6,000$ all from locals. Handyman places donated dumpsters. People gathered andwe
helped clear flotsam that folks had given him in place of money for his working on their lawnmowers. good stuff but too much. He'd been disabledin
a car crash for life, but only got enough money for part of the medical bills and a replacement car. For some reason, he's not eligible for medicare, medicare, or Social Security assistance. He's only 55 or so. A local charity provided drywall. Other locals rewired then redrywalled.We
got him a hot water heater. His brother provided a stove. I came up witha
larger dorm fridge that runs at very low cost and an ancillary chestfreezer
he can use when he needs to, and unplug when he doesnt. Others came upwith
washer/dryer. Probably 100 folks donated time or money to make thathappen.
I 'organize' these sort of things.Donated
Right now, it's a lady (disabled) who has to get a fence up due to code issues, to hide a boat in back yard. We laid the posts yesterday.
wood panels arrived today. She had just enough for the galvanized fencing nails and QuikCrete for the posts.
Sorry for delay! I started a new job and kinda let Fido be on autopilotfor
a bit.
I hear ya -- I'm looking for new work & when I get it, Im sure, I'll be offline for a while, too. . .
not to worry on the area I live in. Navy, 26 years, lived lots of left coastsince
and Hawaii, then Japan. Been back in 'Hampton Roads' (Virginia beach, suffolk, Chesapeake, Norfolk, Hampton, Newport News, Williamburg etc.)
2007.
Did yo knowe that on December 7, 1941 when Japan attacked your Pacific base, they also attacked Vancouver, Canada, trying to pre-emptively prevent us fro hearing yhour radio call for help & our cutting them off on their way home (look at a map -- easily done)
Canada actually declared war on Japan quicker than you guys did!
On local stuff I do, well tends to be very direct. Neighbor, now good friend has MS and Lupus. She asked how much a wheelchair ramp costs to build on a house. I and some 50 others built it with donated materialsand
labor.
Then there was a fellow with no electricity for the last 10 years and no heat headed at his 5th year. He needed help decluttering, wood burner chimney repair, funds. Nothing electric in the house still worked(fridge,
stove, washer, dryer, hot water heater). Most electric lines had been ra chewn so wall rip out and replacement then the ceiling collapsed due toold
house and 60 year old drywall nails. Go-Fund-me set for 2,000$ hit 6,000 all from locals. Handyman places donated dumpsters. People gathered andwe
helped clear flotsam that folks had given him in place of money for his working on their lawnmowers. good stuff but too much. He'd been disabledin
a car crash for life, but only got enough money for part of the medical bills and a replacement car. For some reason, he's not eligible for medicare, medicare, or Social Security assistance. He's only 55 or so. local charity provided drywall. Other locals rewired then redrywalled.We
got him a hot water heater. His brother provided a stove. I came up wita
larger dorm fridge that runs at very low cost and an ancillary chestfreezer
he can use when he needs to, and unplug when he doesnt. Others came upwith
washer/dryer. Probably 100 folks donated time or money to make thathappen.
I 'organize' these sort of things.
Right now, it's a lady (disabled) who has to get a fence up due to code issues, to hide a boat in back yard. We laid the posts yesterday.Donated
wood panels arrived today. She had just enough for the galvanized fencin nails and QuikCrete for the posts.
That's swonderful stuff! I love hearing good stories like this! Ever watch MrBeast on YouTube? He does a lot of philanthropic work with the millions Youtube pays him. . .
Can you give me some tips on doing this sort of direct organising of assistances, please?
Your friend,
<+]:{)}
Cyberpope, Bishop of ROM
Sure. First thing is the main 'work' is in organizing it all while accepting what level of time folks have to donate to it. Most of ourswere
done via 'NextDoor' (a social networking site, limited mostly to within 5-10
miles of you). It's interesting because it really does create a'community
effect'.for
What you do is catch wind of someone who needs help, then if they are willing to accept it, let others know what piece of the project needs help and see what comes back. Critical is scoping it small enough to be in the realm of the 'possible'. You also have to control your frustration when someone who didn't keep up with the thread, makes the 700'th suggestion
some charity that's already been contacted (grin). With Charlie, we just started with 'get the man heat'.who
That was the most critical portion. The next step was to find someone
could repair a stove pipe for a large indoor wood burning stove. I told folks at the start, this would be on a shoe string budget but we justneeded
to pay a handyman with a skill set close enough to get the new one he already had, in place. He'd have helpers. We dug in youtube for how todo
it and a nice young man said he'd do it for 100$ plus parts. He was just starting out in the Handyman business so we all knew he was going wellunder
the 'going rate' but it would help another and hopefully get his name out there (It worked, he did beautifully and folks started calling him with jobs). We started with a goal of 2,000.Charlie's
At this stage, we needed about 200$ (Labor and parts), backpay a 900$ 10 year old electrical bill that for whatever reason, they would not waive, 500$ for critical structural repairs, and 500$ worth of materials to get just enough electricity rolling for 4 outlets.
Then I called for a working party to help clear stuff. We had some 15 people (some kids but old enough to be helpful). It took 2 days.
not actually a hoader, he was just overwhelmed with donated 'stuff'.Would
have made a hell of a yardsale but it was bitter cold with off and on snow so instead, we told folks that we set the best by the 3 donated dumpsters but come get whatever they wanted. Smile, folks knew what was up from NextDoor posts and suddenly folks who 'took free stuff' started donatingthe
value they could afford to his go fund me account. Yup, ammassed muchmore
so we up-ticked the project and had the whole house rewired, literally. Every single wire was ripped out and replaced, mostly with donated parts/wire, donated time from a local company that is highly respected asa
class A electrical. (Smile, they do a worthy chairity a year and his was it, not even tax deductable).current
Then ceilings started to fall in (Drywall with older type nails, not
spec screws). We thought the livingroom would be first but instead it was the 2nd bedroom, then 3rd bedroom and finally his master bedroom.donated
Livingroom held on for another 6 months. One of the local charitys
1,200 square feet of drywall.was
A lot of the work was done during the nominal 'dead time' for these handymen.
In the end, I literally do not know how many people were involved but it
estimated, 500 or so was probably right, even if just with money orhelping
find resources. Grin, even got him a stove (he was using propane), a hot water heater (can you imamgine 10 years without a hot bath in winter?) and an extremely efficient mini-fridge.sorts
Tip? For this type, be kind and patient as folks seek to 'donate' all
of stuff that can't be used like electric heaters or cooking relatedthings
like blenders that he's never going to make enough money to afford the electrical costs to use them.
Also, at the start ask folks who are referring to various charitys, that they call them first to see if they are even still in business or are limited in some way (like, only members of this specific church are eligible).
It is a lot of work, but it's a really good feeling to get engaged and DO something for others.
Re: Re: Greetings
By: George Pope to Carol Shenkenberger on Tue Jul 27 2021 04:10 pm
Sorry for delay! I started a new job and kinda let Fido be on autopilotfor
a bit.
I hear ya -- I'm looking for new work & when I get it, Im sure, I'll be offline for a while, too. . .
not to worry on the area I live in. Navy, 26 years, lived lots of left coastsince
and Hawaii, then Japan. Been back in 'Hampton Roads' (Virginia beach, suffolk, Chesapeake, Norfolk, Hampton, Newport News, Williamburg etc.)
2007.
Did yo knowe that on December 7, 1941 when Japan attacked your Pacific base, they also attacked Vancouver, Canada, trying to pre-emptively prevent us fro hearing yhour radio call for help & our cutting them off on their way home (look at a map -- easily done)
Canada actually declared war on Japan quicker than you guys did!
On local stuff I do, well tends to be very direct. Neighbor, now good friend has MS and Lupus. She asked how much a wheelchair ramp costs to build on a house. I and some 50 others built it with donated materialsand
labor.
Then there was a fellow with no electricity for the last 10 years and no heat headed at his 5th year. He needed help decluttering, wood burner chimney repair, funds. Nothing electric in the house still worked(fridge,
stove, washer, dryer, hot water heater). Most electric lines had been ra chewn so wall rip out and replacement then the ceiling collapsed due toold
house and 60 year old drywall nails. Go-Fund-me set for 2,000$ hit 6,000 all from locals. Handyman places donated dumpsters. People gathered andwe
helped clear flotsam that folks had given him in place of money for his working on their lawnmowers. good stuff but too much. He'd been disabledin
a car crash for life, but only got enough money for part of the medical bills and a replacement car. For some reason, he's not eligible for medicare, medicare, or Social Security assistance. He's only 55 or so. local charity provided drywall. Other locals rewired then redrywalled.We
got him a hot water heater. His brother provided a stove. I came up wita
larger dorm fridge that runs at very low cost and an ancillary chestfreezer
he can use when he needs to, and unplug when he doesnt. Others came upwith
washer/dryer. Probably 100 folks donated time or money to make thathappen.
I 'organize' these sort of things.
Right now, it's a lady (disabled) who has to get a fence up due to code issues, to hide a boat in back yard. We laid the posts yesterday.Donated
wood panels arrived today. She had just enough for the galvanized fencin nails and QuikCrete for the posts.
That's swonderful stuff! I love hearing good stories like this! Ever watch MrBeast on YouTube? He does a lot of philanthropic work with the millions Youtube pays him. . .
Can you give me some tips on doing this sort of direct organising of assistances, please?
Your friend,
<+]:{)}
Cyberpope, Bishop of ROM
Right now, it's a lady (disabled) who has to get a fence up due to code issues, to hide a boat in back yard. We laid the posts yesterday.Donated
wood panels arrived today. She had just enough for the galvanized fencin nails and QuikCrete for the posts.
That's swonderful stuff! I love hearing good stories like this! Ever watch MrBeast on YouTube? He does a lot of philanthropic work with the millions Youtube pays him. . .
Can you give me some tips on doing this sort of direct organising of assistances, please?
Your friend,
<+]:{)}
Cyberpope, Bishop of ROM
See if they have 'NextDoor' where you are? That one is the easiest.
Right now, it's a lady (disabled) who has to get a fence up due to code issues, to hide a boat in back yard. We laid the posts yesterday.Donated
wood panels arrived today. She had just enough for the galvanized fencin nails and QuikCrete for the posts.
Spounds like this could uset he kind of helping I'm involved with - 'upriver ' helps; could the problem be city hall & it's demands? Should such a situation have exceptions built into the bylaw for exigency?
That's swonderful stuff! I love hearing good stories like this! Ever watch MrBeast on YouTube? He does a lot of philanthropic work with the millions Youtube pays him. . .
Can you give me some tips on doing this sort of direct organising of assistances, please?
Your friend,
<+]:{)}
Cyberpope, Bishop of ROM
See if they have 'NextDoor' where you are? That one is the easiest.
I do; I've been on it for some time, but not seen anyone ask for help in there yet. . . I'm signed up gfor the helper match feature, so I'll just kee my eyes open.
Thank you; keep up the good work, good neighbour!
Your friend,
<+]:{)}
Cyberpope, Bishop of ROM
Sometimes, you have to let people know that they can ask? They may not think of it because in your neck, no one has before?
Here's close to a recent one over where I am:
'I'd like to start a small community helper project, where a few of us do simple things for others, materials donated or they provide. Things like painting sheds, fixing a wooden fence, caulking windows for winter'.
This became quite popular. Some of the workers are handymen who volunteer to teach other handymen, a new skill set. Say you are a roofer by trade but would like to make yourself a brick firepit. You find a project doing brickwork and volunteer to help. Others are as simple as stacking fireplace wood for older couples (often you get a good amount of free properly aged split wood in return).
2 months ago a friend got a new shed and a team of us showed up to caulk then prime and paint. Last month a disabled lady got told a 'hitching post' (cosmetic) fence had to come out. HOA passed a new rule or something. We made a flower box base around it and planted it with climing ivy and pink Azelias... (legal per HOA).
Yup! Lots of folks like to mentor and with work being slow, they are finding adding an extra skill set helps out. Also builds a sort of 'network'. Dan recently did that. 3 of his 6 workers came down with COVID after going to a party. With only 5 total, he hit a real problem. Then he started calling some of the fellows who'd worked on 'NextDoor' projects with him, and got 4 folks who were happy to pinch-hit on fencing work. One he hired outright, Hassam.
Hassam lives across the street from me. Afgan refugee (some came to Virginia Beach and have legal alien status to work). Good soul. Crossed the border first day of the evacuation with family and what they could carry. He's applied for citizenship already.
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Yup! Lots of folks like to mentor and with work being slow, they are finding adding an extra skill set helps out. Also builds a sort of 'network'. Dan recently did that. 3 of his 6 workers came down with COVID after going to a party. With only 5 total, he hit a real problem. Then he started calling some
of the fellows who'd worked on 'NextDoor' projects with him, and got 4 folks who were happy to pinch-hit on fencing work. One he hired outright, Hassam. Hassam lives across the street from me. Afgan refugee (some came to Virginia Beach and have legal alien status to work). Good soul. Crossed the border first day of the evacuation with family and what they could carry. He's applied for citizenship already.
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I tried to telnet in to this address: shenks.synchro.net using SyncTerm, but wouldn't connect. I tried again as RLogin. . . & nada
Your friend,
<+]:{)}
Cyberpope, Bishop of ROM
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