• Re: black widow(er) effect

    From stephan Beyer@21:1/5 to David Dalton on Thu Jul 14 04:13:47 2022
    On Thursday, June 30, 2022 at 12:13:37 AM UTC-5, David Dalton wrote:
    Incompatible relationships are an abomination, so for a gay man
    (man attracted just to men) to have sex with a woman, often by
    thinking of a man who is not there, or for a lesbian (woman
    attracted just to women) to have sex with a man, sometimes
    by thinking of a woman who is not there, is an abomination.

    And associated with that is a black widow effect, when a lesbian
    is married to a man the man’s lifespan is shortened, and a
    black widower effect, when a gay man is married to a woman
    the woman’s lifespan is shortened. (That does not apply to
    platonic gay--lesbian parental units.)

    One example of this, that I intuited with my past matchmaking
    ability, is that UN Secretary General Antonio Guterres is
    gay, and that resulted in the early death of his first wife.
    However, he is optimally sexually compatible with his
    current wife, who is bimT.

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    David Dalton dal...@nfld.com https://www.nfld.com/~dalton (home page) https://www.nfld.com/~dalton/dtales.html Salmon on the Thorns (mystic page) “‘Then you saw me from the cathedral/Well I'm an ancient heart/Yes,
    you saw me from the cathedral/And here we are just falling apart" (T.T.)
    people love to try to trigger people to ignore the big picture. . .proxy war capitalism and occupation may be bigger issues then what 2 guys do.

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  • From David Dalton@21:1/5 to All on Mon Jul 18 23:48:29 2022
    On Jul 14, 2022, stephan Beyer wrote
    (in article<acdbe134-42d0-4fc1-a501-4adbdc019ea1n@googlegroups.com>):

    On Thursday, June 30, 2022 at 12:13:37 AM UTC-5, David Dalton wrote:
    Incompatible relationships are an abomination, so for a gay man
    (man attracted just to men) to have sex with a woman, often by
    thinking of a man who is not there, or for a lesbian (woman
    attracted just to women) to have sex with a man, sometimes
    by thinking of a woman who is not there, is an abomination.

    And associated with that is a black widow effect, when a lesbian
    is married to a man the man’s lifespan is shortened, and a
    black widower effect, when a gay man is married to a woman
    the woman’s lifespan is shortened. (That does not apply to
    platonic gay--lesbian parental units.)

    One example of this, that I intuited with my past matchmaking
    ability, is that UN Secretary General Antonio Guterres is
    gay, and that resulted in the early death of his first wife.
    However, he is optimally sexually compatible with his
    current wife, who is bimT.

    people love to try to trigger people to ignore the big picture. . .proxy war capitalism and occupation may be bigger issues then what 2 guys do.

    But when all is well, including compatible relationships, in
    the bedroom, that will be reflected in society.

    And of course a gay man is compatible with another gay man
    or a bim or a gayT or a bimT, and relations between them
    are thus not an abomination, if that wasn’t clear in my
    thread-originating post.

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    David Dalton dalton@nfld.com https://www.nfld.com/~dalton (home page) https://www.nfld.com/~dalton/dtales.html Salmon on the Thorns (mystic page) “And the cart is on a wheel; And the wheel is on a hill;
    And the hill is shifting sand; And inside these laws we stand" (Ferron)

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