• My soon-to-be ex-husband placed his money in a trust before we married,

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    My soon-to-be ex-husband placed his money in a trust before we married,
    and used it to buy properties. Am I entitled to any of these?
    Last Updated: Dec. 10, 2020 at 5:48 a.m. ET
    First Published: Nov. 20, 2020 at 3:13 a.m. ET
    By Quentin Fottrell

    He also bought an investment property, supposedly with his trust fund a
    month after marriage without my knowledge and another investment
    property with his mom before marriage’

    Dear Moneyist,

    My spouse created a revocable trust two months before our marriage
    without my knowledge. He placed all of his money in the trust fund. We
    are now getting a divorce. Am I entitled to any of his assets? Or not?

    He also bought an investment property, supposedly with his trust fund, a
    month after marriage without my knowledge (his mom co-signed), and
    bought another investment property with his mom before marriage. I am
    the only one on the deed of the house we currently live in.

    Soon-to-be ex-wife
    Dear Soon-to-be ex,

    In an equitable-property state, a divorce court is under no obligation
    to divide property 50/50, but generally assets brought into the marriage
    are treated as separate property. In a community-property state, any
    assets acquired during the marriage are deemed marital property and
    divided 50/50. In a community-property state, gifts and inheritance are
    not regarded as marital property and, therefore, not divided equally in
    a divorce.

    Your family home is considered community property if it was purchased
    during the marriage, and/or if joint funds were used to pay the mortgage
    or for the upkeep of the property regardless of whose name is on the
    deed. However, in an equitable-property state, the divorce court may
    take your husband’s own financial activities and/or behavior into
    account when splitting the assets. If you purchased this property prior
    to the marriage, it will remain yours and yours alone.

    There are exceptions in which some of your husband’s assets/funds could
    be considered community property, Kyle Hafstad, estate planning adviser
    at Exencial Wealth Advisors, told MarketWatch. “In some
    community-property states, though the asset/property itself is
    considered separate property, the income from the investments/assets
    (including a rental property) are considered community property.”

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    “If the income, deemed community property in this situation, was then
    used to purchase the investment property during the marriage, then all
    or part of that investment property may be considered a community
    property asset,” he adds. “Often the courts will take a spouse’s
    separate property into account when dividing the community-property
    assets, meaning that one spouse may end up receiving more than 50% of
    the community-property assets during a divorce.”

    Such commingling is always a risk. According to Long, Murphy & Zung, a
    law firm in Naples, Fla., “one of the most common reasons exes lay claim
    to trusts belonging to their spouses is because assets were pulled out
    during the marriage and commingled with the couple’s finances.” The firm adds, “Trusts work very much like any other asset does in a divorce.” If your husband owned it prior to the marriage, it remains separate
    property. Florida is an equitable-distribution state.

    Your husband is subject to the same rules as everyone else. Koons
    Fuller, a law firm in the Dallas/Fort Worth area, breaks it down this
    way: “You can determine if a house is community property or separate
    property using the following rules: A house purchased during marriage is presumed to be community property. A house owned before marriage is
    separate property, as is a house inherited or received as a gift.” Texas
    is a community-property state.

    Your husband is either a cautious man or, to put a more skeptical spin
    on it, he believes that marriage is the first step towards divorce.
    Your lawyer will help you navigate the finer details in your state and marriage. Generally, secrets do not bode well for a spouse’s confidence
    in a marriage. Some are worse than others. I have received many letters
    where one or both spouses write a secret will; one woman said her
    husband, who had a monthly income of $8,000, sent his mail to a P.O. box
    to hide his finances. One silver lining here: Your husband’s actions
    seem less egregious compared to that.

    He is either a very cautious and meticulous man or, to put a more
    skeptical spin on it, he believes that marriage is the first step
    towards divorce. Setting up this trust in secret did not bode well for
    his trust in the marriage itself. Ditto buying an investment property
    with his mother without telling you. I suggest you were dealing with an
    unknown quantity from the very beginning, and I’m talking about your
    husband here, not the total value of his assets.

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