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You may be surprised to know that “cuckold porn” was the second
most searched porn term after “youth,” according to the authors
of the book “A Billion Wicked Thoughts: What the Internet Tells
Us About Sexual Relationships.” While wife sharing may be a
commonly held fantasy, in reality, it’s a sexual scenario that
is a step too far for most men.

Not for so-called Stags, though. These guys get their rocks off
watching their wife or girlfriend having sex with other dudes.
The Stag either joins in or watches as a voyeur. The Vixen, or,
as they are known in some circles, Hotwife, has sex with the
encouragement of her husband or boyfriend with the Bull (that’s
the guy who is servicing her).

Another scenario is that the Vixen has sex with a Bull outside
of the couple’s shared abode, then comes home and recounts all
the details in a blow-by-blow description to turn the Stag on.

So, are we talking cuckolds?

No. However you could be mistaken for thinking that as the
definition of a cuckold is a man who enjoys the act of his wife
being pleasured by another male. You may have heard the term
“cuck” being bandied about of late. In political circles, it’s a
barb that the alt-right throw at lefty men as in, “You snowflake
cuck,” before the left cluck back and call them “Cuckservatives.”

These insults allude to the fact that in some cuckhold scenarios
there’s an element of ritualized humiliation, submissiveness,
jealousy or denial that comes into play. The Bull, the wife or
both dominate the encounter and the cuckold gets his sexual
thrill from the masochistic shame and humiliation.

Their little secret
Meet Stag & Vixen couple Susie*, 36, and Shane*, 38, who go
under the Twitter handle @Ourlittlesecret. So-called because
apart from indulging in extra-circular bedroom activities,
they’re otherwise a long-term, straight, married couple with
kids and regular jobs, whose friends have no idea what they get
up to. Although their 72K Twitter followers do.

For Susie and Shane, the term Stag & Vixen was a better fit than
cuckold. “It’s a description that suites us perfectly as there
is no humiliation or denial involved,” explains Shane. “I prefer
to be a voyeur, but occasionally, I’ll join in. Watching my wife
with another man is a big turn-on for me. It’s like foreplay. As
much as I love watching, I can’t wait for the Bull to leave so I
can ravish Susie myself.”

In Stag & Vixen circles, this is known as “reclaiming” and the
focus of the couple returning back to each.

It was Shane’s long-held fantasy for Susie to have sex with
another man. “We’d often roleplay it in a fantasy situation,”
explains Susie. “However, I was too insecure about my body to
entertain the thought of having sex with anyone else. Then we
started the Twitter account and started posting naked pictures
(Susie never shows her face, so there’s an anonymity). I enjoyed
the exhibitionism and the compliments. I got talking to a guy
who lived in our city and he asked me out for coffee. Shane was
all for it.”

After the date, the Bull came home with Susie and they had sex.
“Sex with another man was appealing because Shane and I have
been together since I was 18” she says. “I felt like a teenager
who was dating again.”

However, Susie found being watched by Shane awkward at first.
“Initially, I found it hard to have sex in front of Shane,” she
says. “He knows my comfort levels, so now he leaves us to it,
until I get into it. Once I’m warmed up, then he’ll come into
the room and I feel OK.”

“Once I walked in on them and she was on top; it’s your bed,
your wife and another man. It’s crazy, but it’s a big turn-on,”
says Shane. “However, it’s not like in the movies, with the guy
directing the scene, I just sit there quietly.”

“Every now and then, I’ll look over, smile and giggle Shane’s
way,” adds Susie. “Or Shane will come over and give me long,
hot, horny kisses.”

The rules

Interestingly, many Stags have no interest in sexual encounters
with other women. “I’ve got a hall pass to sleep with other
women but that wasn’t the original intention. It was always
about Susie’s pleasure and the pleasure I get from her
experiencing it.”

However, the couple say there are rules in place. “The rules are
Shane has to know about everything and we can’t have any
secrets,” says Susie. “If I happen to go out by myself, he has
to hear all the details.”

Shane says there definitely was a learning curve when the couple
first started living the Stag & Vixen lifestyle. “Susie would
get lost in the moment on dates and forget to keep in touch,”
said Shane. “Once she had sex in the car before she got home,
which was a sore subject as I wanted to be there when she was
having sex.”

The obvious question that had be asked is whether Susie ever
felt coerced in any way. “No, I wouldn’t have done it if I
didn’t want to,” she asserts. “I like being able to experience
pleasure with other men. However, with sex anyone other than
Shane is purely sexual. Our relationship is my prime focus.”

The couple say they have more sex together now. “Susie tends to
be more horny before, during and then after, if she has a date.
It has brought us closer together more,” says Shane.

*Names have been changed to protect anonymity

Guys like this are faggots because they eat other men's spooge
from their wife's cunt. Sicko bastards. They had to learn it
somewhere. Look at their family.

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