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On Mon, 21 Aug 2017 19:54:14 +0000 (UTC), "Leroy N. Soetoro" <leroysoetoro@bho-rejected.com> wrote:

http://nypost.com/2017/06/01/how-a-psychopath-is-made/

Two “extreme” parenting styles have been linked to children becoming
criminal psychopaths in later life, a study has revealed.

The Norwegian University of Science and Technology interviewed high-
security prisoners and found many have a history of either total parental >neglect, or rigidly controlling, authoritarian parents.

A psychopath is a person who suffers from a chronic mental disorder with >abnormal or violent social behavior.

They are defined by their lack of empathy and have a tendency to
manipulate people without any guilt.

The startling research found that all criminal psychopaths studied also
had a history of grotesque physical and/or psychological abuse during >childhood.

Study author Dr. Aina Gullhaugen commented: “Without exception, these
people have been injured in the company of their caregivers.

“And many of the descriptions made it clear that their later ruthlessness
was an attempt to address this damage, but in an inappropriate or bad
way.”

Explaining the types of parents criminal psychopaths typically had, she >added: “If you think of a scale of parental care that goes from nothing,
the absence of care, all the way to the totally obsessive parent, most >parents are in the middle.

“The same applies to how we feel about parental control.

“On a scale from ‘not caring’ all the way to ‘totally controlling,’ most
have parents who end up in the middle.

“But it is different for psychopaths.

“More than half of the psychopaths I have studied reported that they had
been exposed to a parenting style that could be placed on either extreme
of these scales.

“Either they lived in a situation where no one cared, where the child is >subjected to total control and must be submissive, or the child has been >subjected to a neglectful parenting style.”

Parents cannot be blamed for everything, and there are many children who
have awful upbringings and don’t go on to become criminal psychopaths.

Gullhaugen said: “Of course, not all reckless behavior is explained by a
bad upbringing, but we do not inherit everything either. That is my main >point.”

Experts have previously revealed what personality traits to look out for
in order to spot a psychopath.

And here I thought the road to psychopathy was
called "K-12" :-)

But it does make sense that both zero ethical feedback
and 100% micro-managing zeal would do bad things to
the kiddies. First case you never *know* what's right and
the second case you're so frustrated and dependent on
continual guidance that you neither *know* OR *care*
what is right since YOUR feelings on anything are always
irrelevant.

A good case for applying the Buddhas "middle way" concept.

Now I *do* remember that the lads who's fathers were
ex-military (WW2/Korea) who mentally never really LEFT
the military .... those lads were usually the biggest assholes
and most likely to do you harm. Five-year-olds shouldn't
be treated like Marine recuits.

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