• black widow(er) effect

    From David Dalton@21:1/5 to All on Thu Jun 30 03:48:28 2022
    XPost: alt.healing.reiki, alt.meditation.qigong, sci.psychology.psychotherapy XPost: sci.psychology.misc, bionet.neuroscience

    Incompatible relationships are an abomination, so for a gay man
    (man attracted just to men) to have sex with a woman, often by
    thinking of a man who is not there, or for a lesbian (woman
    attracted just to women) to have sex with a man, sometimes
    by thinking of a woman who is not there, is an abomination.

    And associated with that is a black widow effect, when a lesbian
    is married to a man the man’s lifespan is shortened, and a
    black widower effect, when a gay man is married to a woman
    the woman’s lifespan is shortened. (That does not apply to
    platonic gay--lesbian parental units.)

    One example of this that I intuited with my past matchmaking
    ability is that UN Secretary General Antonio Guterres is
    gay, and that resulted in the early death of his first wife.
    However, he is optimally sexually compatible with his
    current wife, who is bimT.

    While in the long term there can be detrimental effects to the
    physical health of the deceived partner, in the short term
    there may be detrimental mental health effects.

    --
    David Dalton dalton@nfld.com https://www.nfld.com/~dalton (home page) https://www.nfld.com/~dalton/dtales.html Salmon on the Thorns (mystic page) “‘Then you saw me from the cathedral/Well I'm an ancient heart/Yes,
    you saw me from the cathedral/And here we are just falling apart" (T.T.)

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