• Buffy's Hiding Off and On

    From jmcquown@21:1/5 to All on Tue Jun 8 17:33:03 2021
    Buffy has started hiding again, off and on. In the last day or so she
    has started fighting me giving her the liquid pain medication. She did
    sleep with me last night but when I got up this morning to dish up her
    food, fresh water, etc. she got off the bed and hid on the chair under
    the dining table. I went about getting ready for work. While I was in
    the shower she came out and ate half the food, then went back up on the
    chair again.

    I know it's uncomfortable if I have to force her mouth open. I wish,
    wish, wish! she could understand the cause and effect: she feels a heck
    of a lot better within minutes if she simply opens her mouth a tiny bit
    without my having to wrangle with her and touch the sore spot on her
    jaw. It takes *one* second to squirt the medication in her mouth.

    I picked up refills of the medication after work today. They want to
    see her again on June 18th. If she continues in this vein I'm afraid
    that Friday appointment could be her last. :(

    Jill

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  • From Cheryl@21:1/5 to jmcquown on Thu Jun 10 06:30:13 2021
    On 2021-06-08 7:03 p.m., jmcquown wrote:
    Buffy has started hiding again, off and on.  In the last day or so she
    has started fighting me giving her the liquid pain medication.  She did sleep with me last night but when I got up this morning to dish up her
    food, fresh water, etc. she got off the bed and hid on the chair under
    the dining table.  I went about getting ready for work.  While I was in
    the shower she came out and ate half the food, then went back up on the
    chair again.

    I know it's uncomfortable if I have to force her mouth open.  I wish,
    wish, wish! she could understand the cause and effect: she feels a heck
    of a lot better within minutes if she simply opens her mouth a tiny bit without my having to wrangle with her and touch the sore spot on her
    jaw.  It takes *one* second to squirt the medication in her mouth.

    I picked up refills of the medication after work today.  They want to
    see her again on June 18th.  If she continues in this vein I'm afraid
    that Friday appointment could be her last. :(

    I'm so sorry to hear this.

    --
    Cheryl

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  • From jmcquown@21:1/5 to Cheryl on Thu Jun 10 16:32:30 2021
    On 6/10/2021 5:00 AM, Cheryl wrote:
    On 2021-06-08 7:03 p.m., jmcquown wrote:
    Buffy has started hiding again, off and on.  In the last day or so she
    has started fighting me giving her the liquid pain medication.  She
    did sleep with me last night but when I got up this morning to dish up
    her food, fresh water, etc. she got off the bed and hid on the chair
    under the dining table.  I went about getting ready for work.  While I
    was in the shower she came out and ate half the food, then went back
    up on the chair again.

    I know it's uncomfortable if I have to force her mouth open.  I wish,
    wish, wish! she could understand the cause and effect: she feels a
    heck of a lot better within minutes if she simply opens her mouth a
    tiny bit without my having to wrangle with her and touch the sore spot
    on her jaw.  It takes *one* second to squirt the medication in her mouth. >>
    I picked up refills of the medication after work today.  They want to
    see her again on June 18th.  If she continues in this vein I'm afraid
    that Friday appointment could be her last. :(

    I'm so sorry to hear this.

    Thank you. She has absolutely refused to let me medicate her since I
    posted that. I'm about to try again just to see if I can make her feel
    better for a little while. I changed the appointment to tomorrow,
    10/11. Tonight will be my last night with her. :( My heart is breaking
    but I know it's the right thing to do.

    Jill

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  • From Cheryl@21:1/5 to jmcquown on Thu Jun 10 19:39:42 2021
    On 2021-06-10 6:02 p.m., jmcquown wrote:
    On 6/10/2021 5:00 AM, Cheryl wrote:
    On 2021-06-08 7:03 p.m., jmcquown wrote:
    Buffy has started hiding again, off and on.  In the last day or so
    she has started fighting me giving her the liquid pain medication.
    She did sleep with me last night but when I got up this morning to
    dish up her food, fresh water, etc. she got off the bed and hid on
    the chair under the dining table.  I went about getting ready for
    work.  While I was in the shower she came out and ate half the food,
    then went back up on the chair again.

    I know it's uncomfortable if I have to force her mouth open.  I wish,
    wish, wish! she could understand the cause and effect: she feels a
    heck of a lot better within minutes if she simply opens her mouth a
    tiny bit without my having to wrangle with her and touch the sore
    spot on her jaw.  It takes *one* second to squirt the medication in
    her mouth.

    I picked up refills of the medication after work today.  They want to
    see her again on June 18th.  If she continues in this vein I'm afraid
    that Friday appointment could be her last. :(

    I'm so sorry to hear this.

    Thank you.  She has absolutely refused to let me medicate her since I
    posted that.  I'm about to try again just to see if I can make her feel better for a little while.  I changed the appointment to tomorrow,
    10/11.  Tonight will be my last night with her. :(  My heart is breaking but I know it's the right thing to do.

    I am thinking of you - all the more because I had to bring Cinnamon in
    when she suddenly worsened badly, only days after the vet thought she'd
    be good til the fall. I pretty well knew I wouldn't be bringing her
    home. I could still medicate Cinnamon, but she wouldn't eat or unless I
    syringe fed her and was so lethargic and weak. I just knew, and I guess
    you do too.

    --
    Cheryl

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  • From jmcquown@21:1/5 to Cheryl on Thu Jun 10 18:26:33 2021
    On 6/10/2021 6:09 PM, Cheryl wrote:
    On 2021-06-10 6:02 p.m., jmcquown wrote:
    On 6/10/2021 5:00 AM, Cheryl wrote:
    On 2021-06-08 7:03 p.m., jmcquown wrote:
    Buffy has started hiding again, off and on.  In the last day or so
    she has started fighting me giving her the liquid pain medication.
    She did sleep with me last night but when I got up this morning to
    dish up her food, fresh water, etc. she got off the bed and hid on
    the chair under the dining table.  I went about getting ready for
    work.  While I was in the shower she came out and ate half the food,
    then went back up on the chair again.

    I know it's uncomfortable if I have to force her mouth open.  I
    wish, wish, wish! she could understand the cause and effect: she
    feels a heck of a lot better within minutes if she simply opens her
    mouth a tiny bit without my having to wrangle with her and touch the
    sore spot on her jaw.  It takes *one* second to squirt the
    medication in her mouth.

    I picked up refills of the medication after work today.  They want
    to see her again on June 18th.  If she continues in this vein I'm
    afraid that Friday appointment could be her last. :(

    I'm so sorry to hear this.

    Thank you.  She has absolutely refused to let me medicate her since I
    posted that.  I'm about to try again just to see if I can make her
    feel better for a little while.  I changed the appointment to
    tomorrow, 10/11.  Tonight will be my last night with her. :(  My heart
    is breaking but I know it's the right thing to do.

    I am thinking of you - all the more because I had to bring Cinnamon in
    when she suddenly worsened badly, only days after the vet thought she'd
    be good til the fall. I pretty well knew I wouldn't be bringing her
    home. I could still medicate Cinnamon, but she wouldn't eat or unless I syringe fed her and was so lethargic and weak. I just knew, and I guess
    you do too.

    Yes. And my heart goes out to you about Cinnamon. It's so sad how
    quickly they can decline and that decision has to be made.

    When I got home I found she had eaten a few bites of her gooshy food.
    She had urinated a little in the litter box. She was curled up on her
    crackle sack and I was able to get some of the pain medication in her
    mouth. But she YOWLED at me and she's back on the chair under the
    table. I can't keep putting her through this. It's time.

    Thank you for your kind thoughts, Cheryl. I'll be a wreck tomorrow,
    driving home with an empty carrier.

    Jill

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  • From cshenk@21:1/5 to jmcquown on Thu Jun 10 18:16:41 2021
    jmcquown wrote:

    On 6/10/2021 6:09 PM, Cheryl wrote:
    On 2021-06-10 6:02 p.m., jmcquown wrote:
    On 6/10/2021 5:00 AM, Cheryl wrote:
    On 2021-06-08 7:03 p.m., jmcquown wrote:
    Buffy has started hiding again, off and on.  In the last day
    or so she has started fighting me giving her the liquid pain medication. She did sleep with me last night but when I got
    up this morning to dish up her food, fresh water, etc. she
    got off the bed and hid on the chair under the dining
    table.  I went about getting ready for work.  While I was in
    the shower she came out and ate half the food, then went
    back up on the chair again.

    I know it's uncomfortable if I have to force her mouth open. 
    I wish, wish, wish! she could understand the cause and
    effect: she feels a heck of a lot better within minutes if
    she simply opens her mouth a tiny bit without my having to
    wrangle with her and touch the sore spot on her jaw.  It
    takes one second to squirt the medication in her mouth.

    I picked up refills of the medication after work today.  They
    want to see her again on June 18th.  If she continues in
    this vein I'm afraid that Friday appointment could be her
    last. :(

    I'm so sorry to hear this.

    Thank you.  She has absolutely refused to let me medicate her
    since I posted that.  I'm about to try again just to see if I
    can make her feel better for a little while.  I changed the
    appointment to tomorrow, 10/11.  Tonight will be my last night
    with her. :(  My heart is breaking but I know it's the right
    thing to do.

    I am thinking of you - all the more because I had to bring Cinnamon
    in when she suddenly worsened badly, only days after the vet
    thought she'd be good til the fall. I pretty well knew I wouldn't
    be bringing her home. I could still medicate Cinnamon, but she
    wouldn't eat or unless I syringe fed her and was so lethargic and
    weak. I just knew, and I guess you do too.

    Yes. And my heart goes out to you about Cinnamon. It's so sad how
    quickly they can decline and that decision has to be made.

    When I got home I found she had eaten a few bites of her gooshy food.
    She had urinated a little in the litter box. She was curled up on
    her crackle sack and I was able to get some of the pain medication in
    her mouth. But she YOWLED at me and she's back on the chair under
    the table. I can't keep putting her through this. It's time.

    Thank you for your kind thoughts, Cheryl. I'll be a wreck tomorrow,
    driving home with an empty carrier.

    Jill

    So sorry Jill. Like many, I've been there too.

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  • From jmcquown@21:1/5 to cshenk on Thu Jun 10 19:50:08 2021
    On 6/10/2021 7:16 PM, cshenk wrote:
    jmcquown wrote:

    On 6/10/2021 6:09 PM, Cheryl wrote:
    On 2021-06-10 6:02 p.m., jmcquown wrote:
    On 6/10/2021 5:00 AM, Cheryl wrote:
    On 2021-06-08 7:03 p.m., jmcquown wrote:
    Buffy has started hiding again, off and on.  In the last day
    or so she has started fighting me giving her the liquid pain
    medication. She did sleep with me last night but when I got
    up this morning to dish up her food, fresh water, etc. she
    got off the bed and hid on the chair under the dining
    table.  I went about getting ready for work.  While I was in
    the shower she came out and ate half the food, then went
    back up on the chair again.

    I know it's uncomfortable if I have to force her mouth open.
    I wish, wish, wish! she could understand the cause and
    effect: she feels a heck of a lot better within minutes if
    she simply opens her mouth a tiny bit without my having to
    wrangle with her and touch the sore spot on her jaw.  It
    takes one second to squirt the medication in her mouth.

    I picked up refills of the medication after work today.  They
    want to see her again on June 18th.  If she continues in
    this vein I'm afraid that Friday appointment could be her
    last. :(

    I'm so sorry to hear this.

    Thank you.  She has absolutely refused to let me medicate her
    since I posted that.  I'm about to try again just to see if I
    can make her feel better for a little while.  I changed the
    appointment to tomorrow, 10/11.  Tonight will be my last night
    with her. :(  My heart is breaking but I know it's the right
    thing to do.

    I am thinking of you - all the more because I had to bring Cinnamon
    in when she suddenly worsened badly, only days after the vet
    thought she'd be good til the fall. I pretty well knew I wouldn't
    be bringing her home. I could still medicate Cinnamon, but she
    wouldn't eat or unless I syringe fed her and was so lethargic and
    weak. I just knew, and I guess you do too.

    Yes. And my heart goes out to you about Cinnamon. It's so sad how
    quickly they can decline and that decision has to be made.

    When I got home I found she had eaten a few bites of her gooshy food.
    She had urinated a little in the litter box. She was curled up on
    her crackle sack and I was able to get some of the pain medication in
    her mouth. But she YOWLED at me and she's back on the chair under
    the table. I can't keep putting her through this. It's time.

    Thank you for your kind thoughts, Cheryl. I'll be a wreck tomorrow,
    driving home with an empty carrier.

    Jill

    So sorry Jill. Like many, I've been there too.

    Thank you, Carol. Unfortunately we've all been there.

    Buffy started her life as a feral, part of a TNR program on Dataw.
    Hence the notched ear in this picture:

    https://i.postimg.cc/rFs6BTJZ/Im-So-Pretty.jpg

    She was taken in very early after that and became completely socialized
    and an indoor only love bug cat. I adopted her after her human died in
    2015. I am very grateful I had six wonderful years with a loving
    snuggle bug. I do wish she'd sleep with me tonight but I know that
    isn't going to happen. :( She'll be out of pain tomorrow.

    Jill

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  • From Still Bud@21:1/5 to All on Thu Jun 10 20:35:23 2021
    On Thu, 10 Jun 2021 19:50:08 -0400, jmcquown <j_mcquown@comcast.net>
    wrote:


    Buffy started her life as a feral, part of a TNR program on Dataw.
    Hence the notched ear in this picture:

    https://i.postimg.cc/rFs6BTJZ/Im-So-Pretty.jpg

    She was taken in very early after that and became completely socialized
    and an indoor only love bug cat. I adopted her after her human died in
    2015. I am very grateful I had six wonderful years with a loving
    snuggle bug. I do wish she'd sleep with me tonight but I know that
    isn't going to happen. :( She'll be out of pain tomorrow.


    I'm so sorry, but any animal lover has been there, usually FAR too
    many times.

    My current cat, GLyN, was abandoned by my landlord's Son in 2009, and
    has been with me since then. He's still very healthy, and mostly only
    comes in for food and attention for an hour or 3, and almost never
    sleeps on my bed. IF it's rainy, maybe.

    I know that if *I* live long enough, I'll lose him, but for now, I'm
    happy when he comes in and head-butts me.

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  • From Jeanne Douglas@21:1/5 to jmcquown on Thu Jun 10 23:36:48 2021
    On 6/10/2021 6:26 PM, jmcquown wrote:
    On 6/10/2021 6:09 PM, Cheryl wrote:
    On 2021-06-10 6:02 p.m., jmcquown wrote:
    On 6/10/2021 5:00 AM, Cheryl wrote:
    On 2021-06-08 7:03 p.m., jmcquown wrote:
    Buffy has started hiding again, off and on.  In the last day or so
    she has started fighting me giving her the liquid pain medication.
    She did sleep with me last night but when I got up this morning to
    dish up her food, fresh water, etc. she got off the bed and hid on
    the chair under the dining table.  I went about getting ready for
    work.  While I was in the shower she came out and ate half the
    food, then went back up on the chair again.

    I know it's uncomfortable if I have to force her mouth open.  I
    wish, wish, wish! she could understand the cause and effect: she
    feels a heck of a lot better within minutes if she simply opens her
    mouth a tiny bit without my having to wrangle with her and touch
    the sore spot on her jaw.  It takes *one* second to squirt the
    medication in her mouth.

    I picked up refills of the medication after work today.  They want
    to see her again on June 18th.  If she continues in this vein I'm
    afraid that Friday appointment could be her last. :(

    I'm so sorry to hear this.

    Thank you.  She has absolutely refused to let me medicate her since I
    posted that.  I'm about to try again just to see if I can make her
    feel better for a little while.  I changed the appointment to
    tomorrow, 10/11.  Tonight will be my last night with her. :(  My
    heart is breaking but I know it's the right thing to do.

    I am thinking of you - all the more because I had to bring Cinnamon in
    when she suddenly worsened badly, only days after the vet thought
    she'd be good til the fall. I pretty well knew I wouldn't be bringing
    her home. I could still medicate Cinnamon, but she wouldn't eat or
    unless I syringe fed her and was so lethargic and weak. I just knew,
    and I guess you do too.

    Yes.  And my heart goes out to you about Cinnamon.  It's so sad how
    quickly they can decline and that decision has to be made.

    When I got home I found she had eaten a few bites of her gooshy food.
    She had urinated a little in the litter box.  She was curled up on her crackle sack and I was able to get some of the pain medication in her mouth.  But she YOWLED at me and she's back on the chair under the
    table.  I can't keep putting her through this.  It's time.

    Thank you for your kind thoughts, Cheryl.  I'll be a wreck tomorrow,
    driving home with an empty carrier.

    Jill


    Good God woman!! Where's your sense of compassion and decency? You're
    keeping this poor animal alive strictly for your own selfish needs. If
    the cat is truly suffering, do the right thing and euthanize her. If you
    don't have the courage to do it yourself, you can send her to me


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  • From jmcquown@21:1/5 to Still Bud on Fri Jun 11 14:05:10 2021
    On 6/10/2021 11:35 PM, Still Bud wrote:
    On Thu, 10 Jun 2021 19:50:08 -0400, jmcquown <j_mcquown@comcast.net>
    wrote:


    Buffy started her life as a feral, part of a TNR program on Dataw.
    Hence the notched ear in this picture:

    https://i.postimg.cc/rFs6BTJZ/Im-So-Pretty.jpg

    She was taken in very early after that and became completely socialized
    and an indoor only love bug cat. I adopted her after her human died in
    2015. I am very grateful I had six wonderful years with a loving
    snuggle bug. I do wish she'd sleep with me tonight but I know that
    isn't going to happen. :( She'll be out of pain tomorrow.


    I'm so sorry, but any animal lover has been there, usually FAR too
    many times.

    My current cat, GLyN, was abandoned by my landlord's Son in 2009, and
    has been with me since then. He's still very healthy, and mostly only
    comes in for food and attention for an hour or 3, and almost never
    sleeps on my bed. IF it's rainy, maybe.

    I know that if *I* live long enough, I'll lose him, but for now, I'm
    happy when he comes in and head-butts me.



    Thank you. I hope GLyN comes in and head-butts you for many more years!
    :) I'm glad to hear he's still very healthy. May that continue for a
    long time.

    I will miss Buffy trying to distract me from reading a book. I'd be
    stretched out on the couch and she'd be snoozing at my feet. Then she'd
    come up and give herself ear scritches on the corner of the book. If it
    was a softback book, it didn't work quite so well. LOL I'd reach out
    and give her ear scritches and talk to her. Sometimes she'd plop her
    head down in the middle of the spine of the book at look at me. That
    was funny! Okay, okay, scritches and I'll put the book down. :) But
    mostly she just got some scritches and went back for a snooze by by
    feet. She was a real snuggle bug. :)

    Jill

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