• AYCE Surf and Turf

    From Sqwertz@21:1/5 to All on Mon Mar 4 18:49:59 2024
    As threatened, I did get about 7lbs of snow crab legs. And
    once I got there and saw the meat was [marinated] sirloin
    FLAP meat, I bought 6 pounds of that too. Sirloin <nyeh>...
    But sirloin FLAP meat - FUCK YES!. I bought the MAX BAG for
    $44. Total cost was about $72 for 7lbs of luscious surf
    and 6lbs of easy turf.

    Add a corked La Fin Du monde and a 6-pack of Spaten
    Optimator - a cool, crisp $100 bill in all. Pbbbt! A mere
    half a day's net salary as a small-time drug dealer (but a
    $100 loss considering I take Sundays and Mondays off
    <shrug>).

    I forgot how much any crab less than a dungeness was to
    pick. But at least it wasn't those frustrating fuck-all blue
    swimmer crabs from the East coast. Don't tell Satan, but
    hell for me would be an eternity of picking blue swimmer
    crabs even if I was allowed to eat all my pickings.
    FUUUUuuuck... THAT!

    https://postimg.cc/gallery/Kx7Qq69

    And I have a shitload of single serving "snack packs" left,
    Great for your kid's lunchbox!

    https://postimg.cc/gallery/YSPbzmw

    Anyway, it's Tuesday tomorrow - back to the weekly
    grind <sigh>.

    -sw



    -sw

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  • From Bruce@21:1/5 to Alex on Wed Mar 6 11:19:14 2024
    On Tue, 5 Mar 2024 18:59:16 -0500, Alex <Xela777@gmail.com> wrote:

    Sqwertz wrote:
    As threatened, I did get about 7lbs of snow crab legs. And
    once I got there and saw the meat was [marinated] sirloin
    FLAP meat, I bought 6 pounds of that too. Sirloin <nyeh>...
    But sirloin FLAP meat - FUCK YES!. I bought the MAX BAG for
    $44. Total cost was about $72 for 7lbs of luscious surf
    and 6lbs of easy turf.

    Add a corked La Fin Du monde and a 6-pack of Spaten
    Optimator - a cool, crisp $100 bill in all. Pbbbt! A mere
    half a day's net salary as a small-time drug dealer (but a
    $100 loss considering I take Sundays and Mondays off
    <shrug>).

    I forgot how much any crab less than a dungeness was to
    pick. But at least it wasn't those frustrating fuck-all blue
    swimmer crabs from the East coast. Don't tell Satan, but
    hell for me would be an eternity of picking blue swimmer
    crabs even if I was allowed to eat all my pickings.
    FUUUUuuuck... THAT!

    https://postimg.cc/gallery/Kx7Qq69

    And I have a shitload of single serving "snack packs" left,
    Great for your kid's lunchbox!

    https://postimg.cc/gallery/YSPbzmw

    Anyway, it's Tuesday tomorrow - back to the weekly
    grind <sigh>.

    -sw



    -sw


    The wife has snow crab at a restaurant a few weeks ago and damn, they
    were thin.  She got a huge plateful but she also got a lot of work. 
    Some places here have a band saw to split the king crab. That wouldn't
    work with the snow crab.

    "The wife" :)

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  • From Cindy Hamilton@21:1/5 to Bruce on Wed Mar 6 10:11:41 2024
    On 2024-03-06, Bruce <Bruce@invalid.invalid> wrote:
    On Tue, 5 Mar 2024 18:59:16 -0500, Alex <Xela777@gmail.com> wrote:

    Sqwertz wrote:
    As threatened, I did get about 7lbs of snow crab legs. And
    once I got there and saw the meat was [marinated] sirloin
    FLAP meat, I bought 6 pounds of that too. Sirloin <nyeh>...
    But sirloin FLAP meat - FUCK YES!. I bought the MAX BAG for
    $44. Total cost was about $72 for 7lbs of luscious surf
    and 6lbs of easy turf.

    Add a corked La Fin Du monde and a 6-pack of Spaten
    Optimator - a cool, crisp $100 bill in all. Pbbbt! A mere
    half a day's net salary as a small-time drug dealer (but a
    $100 loss considering I take Sundays and Mondays off
    <shrug>).

    I forgot how much any crab less than a dungeness was to
    pick. But at least it wasn't those frustrating fuck-all blue
    swimmer crabs from the East coast. Don't tell Satan, but
    hell for me would be an eternity of picking blue swimmer
    crabs even if I was allowed to eat all my pickings.
    FUUUUuuuck... THAT!

    https://postimg.cc/gallery/Kx7Qq69

    And I have a shitload of single serving "snack packs" left,
    Great for your kid's lunchbox!

    https://postimg.cc/gallery/YSPbzmw

    Anyway, it's Tuesday tomorrow - back to the weekly
    grind <sigh>.

    -sw



    -sw


    The wife has snow crab at a restaurant a few weeks ago and damn, they
    were thin.  She got a huge plateful but she also got a lot of work. 
    Some places here have a band saw to split the king crab. That wouldn't
    work with the snow crab.

    "The wife" :)

    It's an idiomatic expression. You're just going to have to deal
    with it. Women refer to their husband as "the hubs", which makes
    me wince.

    --
    Cindy Hamilton

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  • From Bruce@21:1/5 to All on Wed Mar 6 21:21:54 2024
    On 06 Mar 2024 10:11:41 GMT, Cindy Hamilton <hamilton@invalid.com>
    wrote:

    On 2024-03-06, Bruce <Bruce@invalid.invalid> wrote:
    On Tue, 5 Mar 2024 18:59:16 -0500, Alex <Xela777@gmail.com> wrote:

    The wife has snow crab at a restaurant a few weeks ago and damn, they >>>were thin.  She got a huge plateful but she also got a lot of work.  >>>Some places here have a band saw to split the king crab. That wouldn't >>>work with the snow crab.

    "The wife" :)

    It's an idiomatic expression.

    I know.

    You're just going to have to deal with it. Women refer to their husband as "the hubs", which makes
    me wince.

    "The wife" sounds very lower socio-economic to me. Jebus used to say
    it too.

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  • From Janet@21:1/5 to All on Wed Mar 6 16:21:27 2024
    In article <us9g42$at4h$2@dont-email.me>,
    Bruce@invalid.invalid says...

    On 06 Mar 2024 10:11:41 GMT, Cindy Hamilton <hamilton@invalid.com>
    wrote:

    On 2024-03-06, Bruce <Bruce@invalid.invalid> wrote:
    On Tue, 5 Mar 2024 18:59:16 -0500, Alex <Xela777@gmail.com> wrote:

    The wife has snow crab at a restaurant a few weeks ago and damn, they >>>were thin.  She got a huge plateful but she also got a lot of work.  >>>Some places here have a band saw to split the king crab. That wouldn't >>>work with the snow crab.

    "The wife" :)

    It's an idiomatic expression.

    I know.

    You're just going to have to deal with it. Women refer to their husband as "the hubs", which makes
    me wince.

    "The wife" sounds very lower socio-economic to me. Jebus used to say
    it too.


    I knew a woman who
    was a nun for a decade or so, then she left the convent,
    married, had children. She always referred to her husband
    as Himself. I knew other married women in Scotland who
    always referred to their husband as Mr Surname, even to
    close friends. In some cultures, an adult's forename was
    an intimacy for private family use only.

    Janet UK

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  • From Dave Smith@21:1/5 to Janet on Wed Mar 6 11:42:23 2024
    On 2024-03-06 11:21 a.m., Janet wrote:
    In article <us9g42$at4h$2@dont-email.me>,
    Bruce@invalid.invalid says...

    "The wife" sounds very lower socio-economic to me. Jebus used to say
    it too.


    I knew a woman who
    was a nun for a decade or so, then she left the convent,
    married, had children. She always referred to her husband
    as Himself. I knew other married women in Scotland who
    always referred to their husband as Mr Surname, even to
    close friends. In some cultures, an adult's forename was
    an intimacy for private family use only.



    Some cultures are a lot more formal about surnames and titles. I have
    noticed that with a number of northern and eastern Europeans. They
    expected to be addressed by their surname. My nephew's wife was
    Hungarian and some time after they were married she told us we could
    call her Annush, which I guess was a familiar term. A woman at my wife's
    church was Mrs.... to most people. We tended to call her by her first
    name, Giselle, and after she got to know us better we were told we could
    call her Gisela.

    The most curious one was Cheap Bob's snotty step mother. Bob's brother
    and wife were visiting from Saskatchewan and the Bob's girlfriend and
    SiL took her to Toronto to see Phantom of the Opera. My wife had
    arranged for them to go back stage to meet a friend of ours who had the
    lead Bass role. The guy had been a leading opera singer and professor
    for decades. Bob's sister in law lead the visit, introduced herself and
    Bob's girlfriend and then introduced the MiL by her first name. The
    snotty old Hungarian was incensed and rudely interjected.... "I am Mrs. Girouard. I am not the cleaning lady."

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  • From Bruce@21:1/5 to Janet on Thu Mar 7 04:51:16 2024
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024 16:21:27 -0000, Janet <nobody@home.com> wrote:

    In article <us9g42$at4h$2@dont-email.me>,
    Bruce@invalid.invalid says...

    On 06 Mar 2024 10:11:41 GMT, Cindy Hamilton <hamilton@invalid.com>
    wrote:

    On 2024-03-06, Bruce <Bruce@invalid.invalid> wrote:
    On Tue, 5 Mar 2024 18:59:16 -0500, Alex <Xela777@gmail.com> wrote:

    The wife has snow crab at a restaurant a few weeks ago and damn, they
    were thin.  She got a huge plateful but she also got a lot of work. 
    Some places here have a band saw to split the king crab. That wouldn't
    work with the snow crab.

    "The wife" :)

    It's an idiomatic expression.

    I know.

    You're just going to have to deal with it. Women refer to their husband as "the hubs", which makes
    me wince.

    "The wife" sounds very lower socio-economic to me. Jebus used to say
    it too.


    I knew a woman who
    was a nun for a decade or so, then she left the convent,
    married, had children. She always referred to her husband
    as Himself. I knew other married women in Scotland who
    always referred to their husband as Mr Surname, even to
    close friends. In some cultures, an adult's forename was
    an intimacy for private family use only.

    That's strange, but it doesn't sound as bad to me as "the wife".

    By the way, are you saying Ophelia once was a nun? I believe she
    referred to Mr Ophelia as Himself.

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  • From Bruce@21:1/5 to adavid.smith@sympatico.ca on Thu Mar 7 04:53:39 2024
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024 11:42:23 -0500, Dave Smith
    <adavid.smith@sympatico.ca> wrote:

    On 2024-03-06 11:21 a.m., Janet wrote:
    In article <us9g42$at4h$2@dont-email.me>,
    Bruce@invalid.invalid says...

    "The wife" sounds very lower socio-economic to me. Jebus used to say
    it too.

    I knew a woman who
    was a nun for a decade or so, then she left the convent,
    married, had children. She always referred to her husband
    as Himself. I knew other married women in Scotland who
    always referred to their husband as Mr Surname, even to
    close friends. In some cultures, an adult's forename was
    an intimacy for private family use only.

    Some cultures are a lot more formal about surnames and titles. I have
    noticed that with a number of northern and eastern Europeans. They
    expected to be addressed by their surname. My nephew's wife was
    Hungarian and some time after they were married she told us we could
    call her Annush, which I guess was a familiar term. A woman at my wife's >church was Mrs.... to most people. We tended to call her by her first
    name, Giselle, and after she got to know us better we were told we could
    call her Gisela.

    People don't have last names in Australia. Even the bank addresses me
    as Bruce in their letters.

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  • From S Viemeister@21:1/5 to Bruce on Wed Mar 6 18:32:33 2024
    On 06/03/2024 17:51, Bruce wrote:
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024 16:21:27 -0000, Janet <nobody@home.com> wrote:

    I knew a woman who
    was a nun for a decade or so, then she left the convent,
    married, had children. She always referred to her husband
    as Himself. I knew other married women in Scotland who
    always referred to their husband as Mr Surname, even to
    close friends. In some cultures, an adult's forename was
    an intimacy for private family use only.

    That's strange, but it doesn't sound as bad to me as "the wife".

    By the way, are you saying Ophelia once was a nun? I believe she
    referred to Mr Ophelia as Himself.

    I've never been a nun, but I have been known to refer to my husband as 'Himself'.

    Many years ago, I worked in the library of a research group in a
    well-known Scottish university. The director was a bit of a snob, and
    used titles and surnames for his social equals, and forenames (without permission) for those whom he considered beneath him.
    One day, he was in the library and addressed me as Sheila. I raised my
    eyebrow and looked at him. He never did that again.

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  • From Cindy Hamilton@21:1/5 to Bruce on Wed Mar 6 18:34:41 2024
    On 2024-03-06, Bruce <Bruce@invalid.invalid> wrote:
    On 06 Mar 2024 10:11:41 GMT, Cindy Hamilton <hamilton@invalid.com>
    wrote:

    On 2024-03-06, Bruce <Bruce@invalid.invalid> wrote:
    On Tue, 5 Mar 2024 18:59:16 -0500, Alex <Xela777@gmail.com> wrote:

    The wife has snow crab at a restaurant a few weeks ago and damn, they >>>>were thin.  She got a huge plateful but she also got a lot of work.  >>>>Some places here have a band saw to split the king crab. That wouldn't >>>>work with the snow crab.

    "The wife" :)

    It's an idiomatic expression.

    I know.

    You're just going to have to deal with it. Women refer to their husband as "the hubs", which makes
    me wince.

    "The wife" sounds very lower socio-economic to me. Jebus used to say
    it too.

    Why do you care what it sounds like? Are you some sort of snob?

    --
    Cindy Hamilton

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  • From Cindy Hamilton@21:1/5 to Janet on Wed Mar 6 18:36:55 2024
    On 2024-03-06, Janet <nobody@home.com> wrote:
    In article <us9g42$at4h$2@dont-email.me>,
    Bruce@invalid.invalid says...

    On 06 Mar 2024 10:11:41 GMT, Cindy Hamilton <hamilton@invalid.com>
    wrote:

    On 2024-03-06, Bruce <Bruce@invalid.invalid> wrote:
    On Tue, 5 Mar 2024 18:59:16 -0500, Alex <Xela777@gmail.com> wrote:

    The wife has snow crab at a restaurant a few weeks ago and damn, they
    were thin.  She got a huge plateful but she also got a lot of work. 
    Some places here have a band saw to split the king crab. That wouldn't
    work with the snow crab.

    "The wife" :)

    It's an idiomatic expression.

    I know.

    You're just going to have to deal with it. Women refer to their husband as "the hubs", which makes
    me wince.

    "The wife" sounds very lower socio-economic to me. Jebus used to say
    it too.


    I knew a woman who
    was a nun for a decade or so, then she left the convent,
    married, had children. She always referred to her husband
    as Himself. I knew other married women in Scotland who
    always referred to their husband as Mr Surname, even to
    close friends. In some cultures, an adult's forename was
    an intimacy for private family use only.

    Janet UK

    I occasionally refer to my husband as Mr. Hamilton. Once in a
    while I call him that directly: "What do you want for dinner,
    Mr. Hamilton?" It's a joke.

    What's that other British expression I've read? "Her indoors" ?

    --
    Cindy Hamilton

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  • From Bruce@21:1/5 to firstname@lastname.oc.ku on Thu Mar 7 05:39:45 2024
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024 18:32:33 +0000, S Viemeister
    <firstname@lastname.oc.ku> wrote:

    On 06/03/2024 17:51, Bruce wrote:
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024 16:21:27 -0000, Janet <nobody@home.com> wrote:

    I knew a woman who
    was a nun for a decade or so, then she left the convent,
    married, had children. She always referred to her husband
    as Himself. I knew other married women in Scotland who
    always referred to their husband as Mr Surname, even to
    close friends. In some cultures, an adult's forename was
    an intimacy for private family use only.

    That's strange, but it doesn't sound as bad to me as "the wife".

    By the way, are you saying Ophelia once was a nun? I believe she
    referred to Mr Ophelia as Himself.

    I've never been a nun, but I have been known to refer to my husband as >'Himself'.

    Ok. Although I believe Ophelia was raised Catholic, so maybe... But
    more likely it's just more common than I knew, in the UK.

    Many years ago, I worked in the library of a research group in a
    well-known Scottish university. The director was a bit of a snob, and
    used titles and surnames for his social equals, and forenames (without >permission) for those whom he considered beneath him.
    One day, he was in the library and addressed me as Sheila. I raised my >eyebrow and looked at him. He never did that again.

    If it was an Australian university, everybody from "high" to "low"
    would call each other by their first name. I always thought the Dutch
    were pretty informal, compared to the Germans and the French for
    instance, but the Australians beat them hands down.

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  • From Cindy Hamilton@21:1/5 to Bruce on Wed Mar 6 18:40:01 2024
    On 2024-03-06, Bruce <Bruce@invalid.invalid> wrote:
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024 16:21:27 -0000, Janet <nobody@home.com> wrote:

    In article <us9g42$at4h$2@dont-email.me>,
    Bruce@invalid.invalid says...

    On 06 Mar 2024 10:11:41 GMT, Cindy Hamilton <hamilton@invalid.com>
    wrote:

    On 2024-03-06, Bruce <Bruce@invalid.invalid> wrote:
    On Tue, 5 Mar 2024 18:59:16 -0500, Alex <Xela777@gmail.com> wrote:

    The wife has snow crab at a restaurant a few weeks ago and damn, they >>> >>>were thin.  She got a huge plateful but she also got a lot of work.  >>> >>>Some places here have a band saw to split the king crab. That wouldn't >>> >>>work with the snow crab.

    "The wife" :)

    It's an idiomatic expression.

    I know.

    You're just going to have to deal with it. Women refer to their husband as "the hubs", which makes
    me wince.

    "The wife" sounds very lower socio-economic to me. Jebus used to say
    it too.


    I knew a woman who
    was a nun for a decade or so, then she left the convent,
    married, had children. She always referred to her husband
    as Himself. I knew other married women in Scotland who
    always referred to their husband as Mr Surname, even to
    close friends. In some cultures, an adult's forename was
    an intimacy for private family use only.

    That's strange, but it doesn't sound as bad to me as "the wife".

    By the way, are you saying Ophelia once was a nun? I believe she
    referred to Mr Ophelia as Himself.

    It isn't about someone being a nun. "Himself" as slang for a husband
    is even listed in the Urban Dictionary.

    --
    Cindy Hamilton

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  • From Bruce@21:1/5 to All on Thu Mar 7 05:41:31 2024
    On 06 Mar 2024 18:34:41 GMT, Cindy Hamilton <hamilton@invalid.com>
    wrote:

    On 2024-03-06, Bruce <Bruce@invalid.invalid> wrote:
    On 06 Mar 2024 10:11:41 GMT, Cindy Hamilton <hamilton@invalid.com>
    wrote:

    On 2024-03-06, Bruce <Bruce@invalid.invalid> wrote:
    On Tue, 5 Mar 2024 18:59:16 -0500, Alex <Xela777@gmail.com> wrote:

    The wife has snow crab at a restaurant a few weeks ago and damn, they >>>>>were thin.  She got a huge plateful but she also got a lot of work.  >>>>>Some places here have a band saw to split the king crab. That wouldn't >>>>>work with the snow crab.

    "The wife" :)

    It's an idiomatic expression.

    I know.

    You're just going to have to deal with it. Women refer to their husband as "the hubs", which makes
    me wince.

    "The wife" sounds very lower socio-economic to me. Jebus used to say
    it too.

    Why do you care what it sounds like? Are you some sort of snob?

    Of course and so are you.

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  • From Bruce@21:1/5 to All on Thu Mar 7 05:56:00 2024
    On 06 Mar 2024 18:36:55 GMT, Cindy Hamilton <hamilton@invalid.com>
    wrote:

    On 2024-03-06, Janet <nobody@home.com> wrote:

    I knew a woman who
    was a nun for a decade or so, then she left the convent,
    married, had children. She always referred to her husband
    as Himself. I knew other married women in Scotland who
    always referred to their husband as Mr Surname, even to
    close friends. In some cultures, an adult's forename was
    an intimacy for private family use only.

    Janet UK

    I occasionally refer to my husband as Mr. Hamilton. Once in a
    while I call him that directly: "What do you want for dinner,
    Mr. Hamilton?" It's a joke.

    What's that other British expression I've read? "Her indoors" ?

    Is that for when the husband's outside building a new garden shed,
    cleaning the gutters, combing the horses and harvesting the potatoes
    while the wife watches daytime soaps on the couch?

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  • From S Viemeister@21:1/5 to Bruce on Wed Mar 6 18:56:22 2024
    On 06/03/2024 18:39, Bruce wrote:

    <firstname@lastname.oc.ku> wrote:

    Many years ago, I worked in the library of a research group in a
    well-known Scottish university. The director was a bit of a snob, and
    used titles and surnames for his social equals, and forenames (without
    permission) for those whom he considered beneath him.
    One day, he was in the library and addressed me as Sheila. I raised my
    eyebrow and looked at him. He never did that again.

    If it was an Australian university, everybody from "high" to "low"
    would call each other by their first name. I always thought the Dutch
    were pretty informal, compared to the Germans and the French for
    instance, but the Australians beat them hands down.

    My father told me about participating in a 'duzen' ceremony in Germany.
    It was, apparently, quite an honour.

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  • From Bruce@21:1/5 to All on Thu Mar 7 05:57:03 2024
    On 06 Mar 2024 18:40:01 GMT, Cindy Hamilton <hamilton@invalid.com>
    wrote:

    On 2024-03-06, Bruce <Bruce@invalid.invalid> wrote:
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024 16:21:27 -0000, Janet <nobody@home.com> wrote:

    In article <us9g42$at4h$2@dont-email.me>,
    Bruce@invalid.invalid says...

    On 06 Mar 2024 10:11:41 GMT, Cindy Hamilton <hamilton@invalid.com>
    wrote:

    On 2024-03-06, Bruce <Bruce@invalid.invalid> wrote:
    On Tue, 5 Mar 2024 18:59:16 -0500, Alex <Xela777@gmail.com> wrote:

    The wife has snow crab at a restaurant a few weeks ago and damn, they >>>> >>>were thin.  She got a huge plateful but she also got a lot of work.  >>>> >>>Some places here have a band saw to split the king crab. That wouldn't >>>> >>>work with the snow crab.

    "The wife" :)

    It's an idiomatic expression.

    I know.

    You're just going to have to deal with it. Women refer to their husband as "the hubs", which makes
    me wince.

    "The wife" sounds very lower socio-economic to me. Jebus used to say
    it too.


    I knew a woman who
    was a nun for a decade or so, then she left the convent,
    married, had children. She always referred to her husband
    as Himself. I knew other married women in Scotland who
    always referred to their husband as Mr Surname, even to
    close friends. In some cultures, an adult's forename was
    an intimacy for private family use only.

    That's strange, but it doesn't sound as bad to me as "the wife".

    By the way, are you saying Ophelia once was a nun? I believe she
    referred to Mr Ophelia as Himself.

    It isn't about someone being a nun. "Himself" as slang for a husband
    is even listed in the Urban Dictionary.

    I understand that you don't have to have been a nun to refer to your
    husband as Himself.

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  • From D@21:1/5 to Leonard Blaisdell on Wed Mar 6 20:33:33 2024
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024, Leonard Blaisdell wrote:

    On 2024-03-06, Cindy Hamilton <hamilton@invalid.com> wrote:
    On 2024-03-06, Bruce <Bruce@invalid.invalid> wrote:

    "The wife" :)

    It's an idiomatic expression. You're just going to have to deal
    with it. Women refer to their husband as "the hubs", which makes
    me wince.


    Back in the Seventies, I frequented a bar where a elderly man referred to
    his wife as "the old hide", even in her presence. They both seemed OK
    with it. Now, I wonder...was that bad?


    I also heard the wife referred to as "the dragon". This was in a bar, and
    not in her presence. ;)

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  • From Ed P@21:1/5 to Cindy Hamilton on Wed Mar 6 14:27:59 2024
    On 3/6/2024 1:36 PM, Cindy Hamilton wrote:
    On 2024-03-06, Janet <nobody@home.com> wrote:


    I knew a woman who
    was a nun for a decade or so, then she left the convent,
    married, had children. She always referred to her husband
    as Himself. I knew other married women in Scotland who
    always referred to their husband as Mr Surname, even to
    close friends. In some cultures, an adult's forename was
    an intimacy for private family use only.

    Janet UK

    I occasionally refer to my husband as Mr. Hamilton. Once in a
    while I call him that directly: "What do you want for dinner,
    Mr. Hamilton?" It's a joke.


    Terms of endearment. For the past 40 years after we moved I've been
    writing letters to my friend near Philly. The salutation has always
    been the same, a shortened version of her surname. They always start
    Dear Ms. Friz,

    I think she would be disappointed if I used her name instead. Takes 3
    to 4 weeks to finish a letter, just my occasional thoughts for the day.

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  • From Graham@21:1/5 to Bruce on Wed Mar 6 12:42:52 2024
    On 2024-03-06 10:53 a.m., Bruce wrote:
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024 11:42:23 -0500, Dave Smith
    <adavid.smith@sympatico.ca> wrote:

    On 2024-03-06 11:21 a.m., Janet wrote:
    In article <us9g42$at4h$2@dont-email.me>,
    Bruce@invalid.invalid says...

    "The wife" sounds very lower socio-economic to me. Jebus used to say
    it too.

    I knew a woman who
    was a nun for a decade or so, then she left the convent,
    married, had children. She always referred to her husband
    as Himself. I knew other married women in Scotland who
    always referred to their husband as Mr Surname, even to
    close friends. In some cultures, an adult's forename was
    an intimacy for private family use only.

    Some cultures are a lot more formal about surnames and titles. I have
    noticed that with a number of northern and eastern Europeans. They
    expected to be addressed by their surname. My nephew's wife was
    Hungarian and some time after they were married she told us we could
    call her Annush, which I guess was a familiar term. A woman at my wife's
    church was Mrs.... to most people. We tended to call her by her first
    name, Giselle, and after she got to know us better we were told we could
    call her Gisela.

    People don't have last names in Australia. Even the bank addresses me
    as Bruce in their letters.

    Good job it's not Sheila!

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  • From Bruce@21:1/5 to firstname@lastname.oc.ku on Thu Mar 7 06:44:08 2024
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024 18:56:22 +0000, S Viemeister
    <firstname@lastname.oc.ku> wrote:

    On 06/03/2024 18:39, Bruce wrote:

    <firstname@lastname.oc.ku> wrote:

    Many years ago, I worked in the library of a research group in a
    well-known Scottish university. The director was a bit of a snob, and
    used titles and surnames for his social equals, and forenames (without
    permission) for those whom he considered beneath him.
    One day, he was in the library and addressed me as Sheila. I raised my
    eyebrow and looked at him. He never did that again.

    If it was an Australian university, everybody from "high" to "low"
    would call each other by their first name. I always thought the Dutch
    were pretty informal, compared to the Germans and the French for
    instance, but the Australians beat them hands down.

    My father told me about participating in a 'duzen' ceremony in Germany.
    It was, apparently, quite an honour.

    I had to look that up. I've never had that honour :)

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  • From Bruce@21:1/5 to leoblaisdell@sbcglobal.net on Thu Mar 7 06:45:25 2024
    On 6 Mar 2024 19:18:33 GMT, Leonard Blaisdell
    <leoblaisdell@sbcglobal.net> wrote:

    On 2024-03-06, Cindy Hamilton <hamilton@invalid.com> wrote:
    On 2024-03-06, Bruce <Bruce@invalid.invalid> wrote:

    "The wife" :)

    It's an idiomatic expression. You're just going to have to deal
    with it. Women refer to their husband as "the hubs", which makes
    me wince.


    Back in the Seventies, I frequented a bar where a elderly man referred to
    his wife as "the old hide", even in her presence. They both seemed OK
    with it. Now, I wonder...was that bad?

    Maybe "old hide" would sound mild if we knew how she referred to him
    :)

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  • From Graham@21:1/5 to Bruce on Wed Mar 6 12:45:52 2024
    On 2024-03-06 11:39 a.m., Bruce wrote:
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024 18:32:33 +0000, S Viemeister
    <firstname@lastname.oc.ku> wrote:

    On 06/03/2024 17:51, Bruce wrote:


    If it was an Australian university, everybody from "high" to "low"
    would call each other by their first name. I always thought the Dutch
    were pretty informal, compared to the Germans and the French for
    instance, but the Australians beat them hands down.

    A Shell employee told me that there were a couple of German scientists
    working at the Hague who car-pooled to work. Even after 20 years,
    they still called each other "Herr Dr ...."

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  • From Bruce@21:1/5 to Graham on Thu Mar 7 06:58:03 2024
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024 12:42:52 -0700, Graham <g.stereo@shaw.ca> wrote:

    On 2024-03-06 10:53 a.m., Bruce wrote:
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024 11:42:23 -0500, Dave Smith
    <adavid.smith@sympatico.ca> wrote:

    On 2024-03-06 11:21 a.m., Janet wrote:
    In article <us9g42$at4h$2@dont-email.me>,
    Bruce@invalid.invalid says...

    "The wife" sounds very lower socio-economic to me. Jebus used to say >>>>> it too.

    I knew a woman who
    was a nun for a decade or so, then she left the convent,
    married, had children. She always referred to her husband
    as Himself. I knew other married women in Scotland who
    always referred to their husband as Mr Surname, even to
    close friends. In some cultures, an adult's forename was
    an intimacy for private family use only.

    Some cultures are a lot more formal about surnames and titles. I have
    noticed that with a number of northern and eastern Europeans. They
    expected to be addressed by their surname. My nephew's wife was
    Hungarian and some time after they were married she told us we could
    call her Annush, which I guess was a familiar term. A woman at my wife's >>> church was Mrs.... to most people. We tended to call her by her first
    name, Giselle, and after she got to know us better we were told we could >>> call her Gisela.

    People don't have last names in Australia. Even the bank addresses me
    as Bruce in their letters.

    Good job it's not Sheila!

    Yes, that would have been a bit of a misunderstanding.

    If this informal trend continues, I'll be receiving bank letters that
    start with "How ya goin', mate!" in ten years time. All good with me.

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  • From songbird@21:1/5 to Leonard Blaisdell on Wed Mar 6 14:39:33 2024
    Leonard Blaisdell wrote:
    ...
    Back in the Seventies, I frequented a bar where a elderly man referred to
    his wife as "the old hide", even in her presence. They both seemed OK
    with it. Now, I wonder...was that bad?

    you've never heard "The old ball and chain..."?

    i'm annoyed by many of them. Dear Husband or Dear Wife
    are nice, but normally these days i see them abbreviated
    as DH or DW.


    songbird

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  • From Leonard Blaisdell@21:1/5 to Cindy Hamilton on Wed Mar 6 19:18:33 2024
    On 2024-03-06, Cindy Hamilton <hamilton@invalid.com> wrote:
    On 2024-03-06, Bruce <Bruce@invalid.invalid> wrote:

    "The wife" :)

    It's an idiomatic expression. You're just going to have to deal
    with it. Women refer to their husband as "the hubs", which makes
    me wince.


    Back in the Seventies, I frequented a bar where a elderly man referred to
    his wife as "the old hide", even in her presence. They both seemed OK
    with it. Now, I wonder...was that bad?

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  • From Ed Pawlowski@21:1/5 to Leonard Blaisdell on Wed Mar 6 16:26:00 2024
    On 3/6/2024 2:18 PM, Leonard Blaisdell wrote:
    On 2024-03-06, Cindy Hamilton <hamilton@invalid.com> wrote:
    On 2024-03-06, Bruce <Bruce@invalid.invalid> wrote:

    "The wife" :)

    It's an idiomatic expression. You're just going to have to deal
    with it. Women refer to their husband as "the hubs", which makes
    me wince.


    Back in the Seventies, I frequented a bar where a elderly man referred to
    his wife as "the old hide", even in her presence. They both seemed OK
    with it. Now, I wonder...was that bad?

    I've knows couple that have done similar with names. You could not find
    two people closer and loving of each other.

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  • From Bruce@21:1/5 to Ed Pawlowski on Thu Mar 7 08:37:04 2024
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024 16:26:00 -0500, Ed Pawlowski <esp@snet.xxx> wrote:

    On 3/6/2024 2:18 PM, Leonard Blaisdell wrote:
    On 2024-03-06, Cindy Hamilton <hamilton@invalid.com> wrote:
    On 2024-03-06, Bruce <Bruce@invalid.invalid> wrote:

    "The wife" :)

    It's an idiomatic expression. You're just going to have to deal
    with it. Women refer to their husband as "the hubs", which makes
    me wince.


    Back in the Seventies, I frequented a bar where a elderly man referred to
    his wife as "the old hide", even in her presence. They both seemed OK
    with it. Now, I wonder...was that bad?

    I've knows couple that have done similar with names.

    Ed breaks out in Ebonics.

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  • From Ed P@21:1/5 to Bruce on Wed Mar 6 17:12:08 2024
    On 3/6/2024 4:37 PM, Bruce wrote:
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024 16:26:00 -0500, Ed Pawlowski <esp@snet.xxx> wrote:

    On 3/6/2024 2:18 PM, Leonard Blaisdell wrote:
    On 2024-03-06, Cindy Hamilton <hamilton@invalid.com> wrote:
    On 2024-03-06, Bruce <Bruce@invalid.invalid> wrote:

    "The wife" :)

    It's an idiomatic expression. You're just going to have to deal
    with it. Women refer to their husband as "the hubs", which makes
    me wince.


    Back in the Seventies, I frequented a bar where a elderly man referred to >>> his wife as "the old hide", even in her presence. They both seemed OK
    with it. Now, I wonder...was that bad?

    I've knows couple that have done similar with names.

    Ed breaks out in Ebonics.

    I's practisin to get gud

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  • From Bruce@21:1/5 to Ed P on Thu Mar 7 10:35:27 2024
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024 17:12:08 -0500, Ed P <esp@snet.xxx> wrote:

    On 3/6/2024 4:37 PM, Bruce wrote:
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024 16:26:00 -0500, Ed Pawlowski <esp@snet.xxx> wrote:

    On 3/6/2024 2:18 PM, Leonard Blaisdell wrote:
    On 2024-03-06, Cindy Hamilton <hamilton@invalid.com> wrote:
    On 2024-03-06, Bruce <Bruce@invalid.invalid> wrote:

    "The wife" :)

    It's an idiomatic expression. You're just going to have to deal
    with it. Women refer to their husband as "the hubs", which makes
    me wince.


    Back in the Seventies, I frequented a bar where a elderly man referred to >>>> his wife as "the old hide", even in her presence. They both seemed OK
    with it. Now, I wonder...was that bad?

    I've knows couple that have done similar with names.

    Ed breaks out in Ebonics.

    I's practisin to get gud

    :)

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  • From Bruce@21:1/5 to Graham on Thu Mar 7 10:38:25 2024
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024 12:45:52 -0700, Graham <g.stereo@shaw.ca> wrote:

    On 2024-03-06 11:39 a.m., Bruce wrote:
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024 18:32:33 +0000, S Viemeister
    <firstname@lastname.oc.ku> wrote:

    On 06/03/2024 17:51, Bruce wrote:


    If it was an Australian university, everybody from "high" to "low"
    would call each other by their first name. I always thought the Dutch
    were pretty informal, compared to the Germans and the French for
    instance, but the Australians beat them hands down.

    A Shell employee told me that there were a couple of German scientists >working at the Hague who car-pooled to work. Even after 20 years,
    they still called each other "Herr Dr ...."

    That's pretty extreme :)

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  • From S Viemeister@21:1/5 to Bruce on Thu Mar 7 01:13:32 2024
    On 06/03/2024 23:38, Bruce wrote:
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024 12:45:52 -0700, Graham <g.stereo@shaw.ca> wrote:

    On 2024-03-06 11:39 a.m., Bruce wrote:
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024 18:32:33 +0000, S Viemeister
    <firstname@lastname.oc.ku> wrote:

    On 06/03/2024 17:51, Bruce wrote:


    If it was an Australian university, everybody from "high" to "low"
    would call each other by their first name. I always thought the Dutch
    were pretty informal, compared to the Germans and the French for
    instance, but the Australians beat them hands down.

    A Shell employee told me that there were a couple of German scientists
    working at the Hague who car-pooled to work. Even after 20 years,
    they still called each other "Herr Dr ...."

    That's pretty extreme :)

    I've heard of people with two doctorates, insisting that both be used in addressing them - 'Herr Doktor Doktor Schmid'.

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  • From Bruce@21:1/5 to firstname@lastname.oc.ku on Thu Mar 7 12:22:44 2024
    On Thu, 7 Mar 2024 01:13:32 +0000, S Viemeister
    <firstname@lastname.oc.ku> wrote:

    On 06/03/2024 23:38, Bruce wrote:
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024 12:45:52 -0700, Graham <g.stereo@shaw.ca> wrote:

    On 2024-03-06 11:39 a.m., Bruce wrote:
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024 18:32:33 +0000, S Viemeister
    <firstname@lastname.oc.ku> wrote:

    On 06/03/2024 17:51, Bruce wrote:


    If it was an Australian university, everybody from "high" to "low"
    would call each other by their first name. I always thought the Dutch
    were pretty informal, compared to the Germans and the French for
    instance, but the Australians beat them hands down.

    A Shell employee told me that there were a couple of German scientists
    working at the Hague who car-pooled to work. Even after 20 years,
    they still called each other "Herr Dr ...."

    That's pretty extreme :)

    I've heard of people with two doctorates, insisting that both be used in >addressing them - 'Herr Doktor Doktor Schmid'.

    Hahaha, that's so lame!

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  • From songbird@21:1/5 to Bruce on Thu Mar 7 06:55:23 2024
    Bruce wrote:
    On Thu, 7 Mar 2024 01:13:32 +0000, S Viemeister
    <firstname@lastname.oc.ku> wrote:

    On 06/03/2024 23:38, Bruce wrote:
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024 12:45:52 -0700, Graham <g.stereo@shaw.ca> wrote:

    On 2024-03-06 11:39 a.m., Bruce wrote:
    On Wed, 6 Mar 2024 18:32:33 +0000, S Viemeister
    <firstname@lastname.oc.ku> wrote:

    On 06/03/2024 17:51, Bruce wrote:


    If it was an Australian university, everybody from "high" to "low"
    would call each other by their first name. I always thought the Dutch >>>>> were pretty informal, compared to the Germans and the French for
    instance, but the Australians beat them hands down.

    A Shell employee told me that there were a couple of German scientists >>>> working at the Hague who car-pooled to work. Even after 20 years,
    they still called each other "Herr Dr ...."

    That's pretty extreme :)

    I've heard of people with two doctorates, insisting that both be used in >>addressing them - 'Herr Doktor Doktor Schmid'.

    Hahaha, that's so lame!

    put the lime in the coconut...


    songbird

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