• A tragiuc story but: get over it and move on

    From Crash@21:1/5 to All on Fri Feb 16 20:59:35 2024
    https://www.stuff.co.nz/nz-news/350179555/homeless-woman-breaking-point-living-car-two-dogs?lid=fd0tmwu12i8c&utm_source=editorial%2Bnewsletter&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Two%2BMinutes%2BOf%2BStuff&utm_content=email%2Blink

    A tragic story but one I can match with a different outcome.

    A friend of mine was once a reasonably wealthy retired builder with a
    home, boat and 2nd wife. Said wife as diagnosed with cancer. They
    separated 5 years after the diagnosis for reasons I am yet to
    establish but for 7 years (including 2 years after separation) he paid
    for drugs that promised and delivered some relief (but never a cure)
    for her. He sold his house, boat and business to fund the drugs. That
    meant that at 72 he had to live in rental accommodation, so the pets
    had to be re homed and this was done. Today he lives as always with a
    house inspection business to augment his super. He still has cancer
    drug debt to repay 7 years after his 2nd wife died. He views his life
    now as an unavoidable consequence of fate that he had no control over.
    He and I meet twice a week for a drink or two and I learned early on
    never to buy him a round.

    So the pets have to go. Contact an animal rescue group - they are not
    hard to find on Facebook - and move on.

    Our drinking venue is dog-friendly - so my friend has had to adapt to
    meeting the dog he used to own regularly. I am sure this caused
    significant grief at first but he has got over eventually with the
    help of the new owners (who were aware of his circumstances).

    So those dos have to go, and moving them on is ultimately best for
    those dogs. Face up to it. Its bloody tough but all 3 of you will
    move on to ultimately better lives.


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    Crash McBash

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  • From Rich80105@21:1/5 to All on Fri Feb 16 23:30:50 2024
    On Fri, 16 Feb 2024 20:59:35 +1300, Crash <nogood@dontbother.invalid>
    wrote:

    https://www.stuff.co.nz/nz-news/350179555/homeless-woman-breaking-point-living-car-two-dogs?lid=fd0tmwu12i8c&utm_source=editorial%2Bnewsletter&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Two%2BMinutes%2BOf%2BStuff&utm_content=email%2Blink

    A tragic story but one I can match with a different outcome.

    A friend of mine was once a reasonably wealthy retired builder with a
    home, boat and 2nd wife. Said wife as diagnosed with cancer. They
    separated 5 years after the diagnosis for reasons I am yet to
    establish but for 7 years (including 2 years after separation) he paid
    for drugs that promised and delivered some relief (but never a cure)
    for her. He sold his house, boat and business to fund the drugs. That
    meant that at 72 he had to live in rental accommodation, so the pets
    had to be re homed and this was done. Today he lives as always with a
    house inspection business to augment his super. He still has cancer
    drug debt to repay 7 years after his 2nd wife died. He views his life
    now as an unavoidable consequence of fate that he had no control over.
    He and I meet twice a week for a drink or two and I learned early on
    never to buy him a round.

    So the pets have to go. Contact an animal rescue group - they are not
    hard to find on Facebook - and move on.

    Our drinking venue is dog-friendly - so my friend has had to adapt to
    meeting the dog he used to own regularly. I am sure this caused
    significant grief at first but he has got over eventually with the
    help of the new owners (who were aware of his circumstances).

    So those dos have to go, and moving them on is ultimately best for
    those dogs. Face up to it. Its bloody tough but all 3 of you will
    move on to ultimately better lives.

    Good advice, Crash. It is a direct result of the "run public health
    down" policies of previous National-led Governments, not ramped up a
    bit with "make houses and rents unaffordable" from the current
    government. Sometimes individuals have to understand that they have
    lost and will not get help; they have to cut what they can to have any
    life at all; and with the cutting of benefits we can expect more to be
    in this situation.

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  • From Crash@21:1/5 to All on Sat Feb 17 08:54:07 2024
    On Fri, 16 Feb 2024 23:30:50 +1300, Rich80105 <Rich80105@hotmail.com>
    wrote:

    On Fri, 16 Feb 2024 20:59:35 +1300, Crash <nogood@dontbother.invalid>
    wrote:

    https://www.stuff.co.nz/nz-news/350179555/homeless-woman-breaking-point-living-car-two-dogs?lid=fd0tmwu12i8c&utm_source=editorial%2Bnewsletter&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Two%2BMinutes%2BOf%2BStuff&utm_content=email%2Blink

    A tragic story but one I can match with a different outcome.

    A friend of mine was once a reasonably wealthy retired builder with a
    home, boat and 2nd wife. Said wife as diagnosed with cancer. They >>separated 5 years after the diagnosis for reasons I am yet to
    establish but for 7 years (including 2 years after separation) he paid
    for drugs that promised and delivered some relief (but never a cure)
    for her. He sold his house, boat and business to fund the drugs. That >>meant that at 72 he had to live in rental accommodation, so the pets
    had to be re homed and this was done. Today he lives as always with a >>house inspection business to augment his super. He still has cancer
    drug debt to repay 7 years after his 2nd wife died. He views his life
    now as an unavoidable consequence of fate that he had no control over.
    He and I meet twice a week for a drink or two and I learned early on
    never to buy him a round.

    So the pets have to go. Contact an animal rescue group - they are not
    hard to find on Facebook - and move on.

    Our drinking venue is dog-friendly - so my friend has had to adapt to >>meeting the dog he used to own regularly. I am sure this caused >>significant grief at first but he has got over eventually with the
    help of the new owners (who were aware of his circumstances).

    So those dos have to go, and moving them on is ultimately best for
    those dogs. Face up to it. Its bloody tough but all 3 of you will
    move on to ultimately better lives.

    Good advice, Crash. It is a direct result of the "run public health
    down" policies of previous National-led Governments, not ramped up a
    bit with "make houses and rents unaffordable" from the current
    government. Sometimes individuals have to understand that they have
    lost and will not get help; they have to cut what they can to have any
    life at all; and with the cutting of benefits we can expect more to be
    in this situation.

    As usual Rich you have politicised a thread that was not political.
    You have chosen a thread that covers personal tragedy to spout
    political rhetoric.

    You support a political party that in the last 6 years has skillfully
    managed the economy by spending much more to deliver much less. This
    is not just in Health. Take a look at Health spending over the last 6
    years and then take a look at performance (hint: every metric has got
    worse). Don't bother rolling out that old Covid rhetoric again
    because the same trends would have occurred without that. Labour had
    an absolute majority in Parliament for 3 years and was too consumed
    with new co-governance structures (itself an unannounced policy) to
    use that majority wisely. Your credibility in criticising National on
    a scale of 1-10 is zero.

    When you acknowledge the total failure of the last 3 years, and the
    partial failure of the previous 3 years, I might - just might - begin
    to take your political rhetoric seriously.

    Because I know what your likely response is, I do not support current
    National economic policies. Now is not the time to reduce the tax
    revenue and reduced Government spending should be specifically
    targeted at those government departments where bloat is most apparent
    rather than an across-the-board reduction. Because of the damage done
    by Labour to our Health system, carefully-targeted increased spending
    would be OK.


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    Crash McBash

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  • From Tony@21:1/5 to Rich80105@hotmail.com on Fri Feb 16 20:32:24 2024
    Rich80105 <Rich80105@hotmail.com> wrote:
    On Fri, 16 Feb 2024 20:59:35 +1300, Crash <nogood@dontbother.invalid>
    wrote:

    https://www.stuff.co.nz/nz-news/350179555/homeless-woman-breaking-point-living-car-two-dogs?lid=fd0tmwu12i8c&utm_source=editorial%2Bnewsletter&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Two%2BMinutes%2BOf%2BStuff&utm_content=email%2Blink

    A tragic story but one I can match with a different outcome.

    A friend of mine was once a reasonably wealthy retired builder with a
    home, boat and 2nd wife. Said wife as diagnosed with cancer. They >>separated 5 years after the diagnosis for reasons I am yet to
    establish but for 7 years (including 2 years after separation) he paid
    for drugs that promised and delivered some relief (but never a cure)
    for her. He sold his house, boat and business to fund the drugs. That >>meant that at 72 he had to live in rental accommodation, so the pets
    had to be re homed and this was done. Today he lives as always with a >>house inspection business to augment his super. He still has cancer
    drug debt to repay 7 years after his 2nd wife died. He views his life
    now as an unavoidable consequence of fate that he had no control over.
    He and I meet twice a week for a drink or two and I learned early on
    never to buy him a round.

    So the pets have to go. Contact an animal rescue group - they are not
    hard to find on Facebook - and move on.

    Our drinking venue is dog-friendly - so my friend has had to adapt to >>meeting the dog he used to own regularly. I am sure this caused >>significant grief at first but he has got over eventually with the
    help of the new owners (who were aware of his circumstances).

    So those dos have to go, and moving them on is ultimately best for
    those dogs. Face up to it. Its bloody tough but all 3 of you will
    move on to ultimately better lives.

    Good advice, Crash. It is a direct result of the "run public health
    down" policies of previous National-led Governments, not ramped up a
    bit with "make houses and rents unaffordable" from the current
    government. Sometimes individuals have to understand that they have
    lost and will not get help; they have to cut what they can to have any
    life at all; and with the cutting of benefits we can expect more to be
    in this situation.
    You are a prize prick - you turn tragedy at a level most of us will never have to endure into political claptrap.
    And you enjoy doing it, obviously.
    Your life is so narrow that you probably don't cast a shadow. (that comes from something that is well beyond your abilty to understand).

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