• my son wears girl clothes, should i allow it

    From Bigkitty2454@yahoo.com@21:1/5 to eva thomas on Fri Jun 23 09:38:07 2017
    On Friday, August 23, 1996 at 3:00:00 AM UTC-4, eva thomas wrote:
    My 7 year old son often wears girl clothes. What should i do?
    He started wearing his sisters clothes when playing house and i
    didn't see any harm in this. later on he started wearing them
    also when he wasn't playing house. Because i didn't want him to
    ruin his sisters clothes i gave him her old dresses, skirts,
    nightgowns etc. Now when he comes home from school he rushes up
    to his room and puts on his girl clothes. He won't take them off
    until he goes to bed (he sleeps in a nightgown).

    I tried to stop him wearing girl clothes but nothing would help.
    When i force him in boy clothes or i hide his girl clothes he
    starts to yell or cry for hours. I gave him many boy things and
    he has several boy friends to play whith (and who accept him in
    his girl clothes).

    during my holliday he will stay for six weeks with his aunt.
    I fear that if i don't allow him to bring his girl clothes with
    him that his aunt will get problems with him (crying, yelling or
    stealing the clothes of his nieces). His aunt and nieces have seen
    him in girl clothes but i don't think she fu.

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  • From Bigkitty2454@yahoo.com@21:1/5 to eva thomas on Fri Jun 23 09:40:36 2017
    On Friday, August 23, 1996 at 3:00:00 AM UTC-4, eva thomas wrote:
    My 7 year old son often wears girl clothes. What should i do?
    He started wearing his sisters clothes when playing house and i
    didn't see any harm in this. later on he started wearing them
    also when he wasn't playing house. Because i didn't want him to
    ruin his sisters clothes i gave him her old dresses, skirts,
    nightgowns etc. Now when he comes home from school he rushes up
    to his room and puts on his girl clothes. He won't take them off
    until he goes to bed (he sleeps in a nightgown).

    I tried to stop him wearing girl clothes but nothing would help.
    When i force him in boy clothes or i hide his girl clothes he
    starts to yell or cry for hours. I gave him many boy things and
    he has several boy friends to play whith (and who accept him in
    his girl clothes).

    during my holliday he will stay for six weeks with his aunt.
    I fear that if i don't allow him to bring his girl clothes with
    him that his aunt will get problems with him (crying, yelling or
    stealing the clothes of his nieces). His aunt and nieces have seen
    him in girl clothes but i don't think she fully realises what it
    means when he lives with them. I also fear of the reactions of
    other people. At home people saw him gradually picking up his habbit.

    Shall i allow him to bring his girl clothes to his aunt?

    At home he may wear girl clothes in and around the house,
    at the playground, when he goes to some of his friends and when we
    go out to people who accept him in his girl clothes.
    Since he has there no safe playground or people who learned to accept
    him, what should he be allowed? (his aunt can't keep him inside all the
    time)

    eva.
    Lit him wear what he likes and while he is with your ant just pack all girls clothes and tell your aunt to let him wear the clothes and help him look like a girl if that is what he wants to do. You cant change how a person feels when they like a
    different way of dress. Just support him and let him dress the way he wants.

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