• Request for calm discussion, please

    From Andrew M.A. Cater@21:1/5 to All on Fri Apr 9 20:20:02 2021
    Everyone:

    As we've seen many times in the last 25 years or so: Contentious discussions are easy to start and hard to stop.

    Online arguments are hard to contain. It is very easy indeed to upset somebody - to push their buttons - so that they either crumple and fold up or react angrily and instinctively to something written.

    It is also very easy indeed to get sucked into a whirlpool of ideas and
    emotion and react immediately without thinking through the best ways to get points across in a calm, well-phrased and polite way.
    It's a very human failing to just pitch in and get involved in a two or three person fight because you feel that somebody is behaving wrongly towards you
    and not listening to you or your point of view.

    This is very natural online because it's hard to read context and intent: you say things you wouldn't say in person to each other.
    [And of course the obligatory xkcd - https://xkcd.com/386/ ]

    The issues we see reflected on other Debian lists and in other media are continuing to spill over into anger and argument. Please try not to encourage them here and do not start your own further arguments - now is really not
    the time and it detracts from building relations and making a tense
    environment better.

    If anyone has any problems about what I have written or complaints against
    any individual for acting against the Debian code of conduct - please email community@debian.org

    Andy Cater

    For the Community Team

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