• Meet the parents who refuse to give their kids smartphones [telecom]

    From Monty Solomon@21:1/5 to All on Fri May 13 09:06:40 2022
    Meet the parents who refuse to give their kids smartphones

    The vast majority of teens and tweens today have smartphones. These
    parents said no.

    For Adriana Stacey, it's very simple.

    "I'll never buy a smartphone for any of my children," she says.

    It's a personal stance born of professional experiences. Stacey is a psychiatrist who works primarily with high school and college students
    in Fayetteville, Ark., and in her practice she routinely asks new
    patients to swipe open their phones and show her how much screen time
    they're clocking per day.

    "I rarely find one that's under nine hours," she says. "So, these
    teenagers are spending more time on their phone than they are
    sleeping."

    https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/2022/05/09/parents-kids-smartphones/

    ***** Moderator's Note *****

    I knew an Amateur Radio Operator who had a teenage daughter, back
    around 1995, and he figured out a novel way to obviate the problem.
    When his daughter demanded that she get a cellphone, because "All the
    cool kids have them," he told her that she could have a special radio instrument which would top whatever the "cool" kids had, and made her
    obtain a Ham Radio license to get one.

    My buddy then went and bought her a small 220 MHz Ham transceiver
    which had been set up to use a local Amateur Radio repeater, and
    whenever his daughter wanted to get a ride or ask permission to visit
    a friend's home after school, she would call home on her "special"
    phone, using the "autopatch" which connected the repeater to a phone
    line, and make a request without needing to pay for a cell phone or
    airtime. He told me that when other kids asked where to get one, he
    had told her to say that her dad worked at the phone company (which
    was true) and had speacial permission to use channels that the
    ordinary cellphone users couldn't get, and none of them, according to
    him, ever persued their questions any further.

    Admitedly, he had advantages others did not: they lived in a rural
    community far from the major cities, and he owned the repeater
    equipment himself, and 220 MHz has always been a rarely used band, but
    it shows what you can do to fight back against megabuck peer pressure, "influencers," and the other tricks of the marketing juggernauts that
    infested the early years of the cellular revolution.

    Bill Horne
    Moderator

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  • From Michael Trew@21:1/5 to Monty Solomon on Fri May 20 23:25:56 2022
    On 5/13/2022 9:06, Monty Solomon wrote:
    Meet the parents who refuse to give their kids smartphones

    The vast majority of teens and tweens today have smartphones. These
    parents said no.

    For Adriana Stacey, it's very simple.

    "I'll never buy a smartphone for any of my children," she says.

    It's a personal stance born of professional experiences. Stacey is a psychiatrist who works primarily with high school and college students
    in Fayetteville, Ark., and in her practice she routinely asks new
    patients to swipe open their phones and show her how much screen time
    they're clocking per day.

    "I rarely find one that's under nine hours," she says. "So, these
    teenagers are spending more time on their phone than they are
    sleeping."

    https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/2022/05/09/parents-kids-smartphones/

    This is teetering on the edge of "telecom" conversation, but my 7 year
    old daughter's doctor is _very_ against smart phones and tablets for
    children. She is adamant that all of this screen time is exacerbating attention deficit issues in children, and causing focus issues in
    school. Of course, my daughter doesn't have a phone, but we've reduced
    her screen-time (if it were only up to me, she would have never had the
    tablet in the first place).

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